2006-07-22 01:03:51 · 17 answers · asked by Rosalinda 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Getting married is easy, but finding the "right" man to marry is not. One that will love you and your two boys, be good to you and them, and be a stable male figure for them, can be rather hard to do. Don't rush it....take your time. In the meantime, be a great Mom to your boys, and they will turn out just fine.
2006-07-22 01:09:52 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it is very easy for you to get married because you are single again. You know it is hard to be alone because we need someone whom we can lean on. Friends is always there for you to share .But there is a big difference if you will have a partners in life. And now, how about the approval of your 2 sons? If they are still small then it will be okay. But if they are already teenagers then there will be a problem. Because you are not a bad mother and you cant leave your sons as it is. It is because you have a good heart . I know that you have a respect for your sons approval too. Good luck and invite me when you get married again.(^_^)
2006-07-22 09:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by MAGNIFICENT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be easy but also very difficult. I was in the same position as you some years ago, my husband dies and left me with a 13 & 11 yr old respectively, I decided that I was not going to bring any man into my house to make my boys feel uneasy. Now they are 21 & 19 respectively and I have found a man I love in another country. My boys were the first to say Mum you have given enougth time to us, it is your turn now, so I sent my younger son to Uni my older son has a son of his own now and my life is now carrying on. Give it time and all will fall into place. Be a good solid stable mum to your boys and all will come good in the end. GOOD LUCK.
2006-07-22 08:29:15 · answer #3 · answered by jojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can marry again.... What should be in the way? You should meet the right guy, that's it. This includes that he gets on well with the children as well. Honestly, you just need to know there is nothing that prevents you from marrying. Full stop. And good luck!
2006-07-22 09:42:12 · answer #4 · answered by Claire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow i'am really sorry to hear that i know it's hard , my friend have a son she's 20 i feel bad for her , i do want to amrry her cause she's good looking nice sence of humore etc but not sure i feel like i'am cheating on her soyeah if u find someone go for it it's also for the kids too it's nice to feel that they have someone like a dad. good luck hope everything workout...by the way i'am a guy i know what a *** holes yeah right !!lol good luck again
2006-07-22 08:09:21 · answer #5 · answered by shadow_relevant03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, go on with your life. Your sons should be happy for you. And your sons must realize that life continues.When mom is happy everybody is happy. Good luck.
2006-07-22 08:13:49 · answer #6 · answered by meatball288001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sure that's easy if he has respect for your children as well as you...Just make sure he is as good to your children as he is to you...But at the same time watch who your dating and make sure you have confidence in them before introducing them to your children...Also make sure there ready...Nothing worse to children than mom bringing home a different man every weekend..
Good luck and i wish you the best..Smiles be happy..
2006-07-22 08:21:35 · answer #7 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes dear.... I can understand that its hard to manage alone.... But b careful not to hurt urself.... U need sumone to love and take care of not only you but also ur guys.... Am sure he is born sumwhere dear. Good luck and u will meet him in another six months i tell you
2006-07-22 08:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
When you are ready the yes its easy to find love, but only if you are ready and open to it. Talk to everyone, date frequently and been open. That way love will find you and your happiness will be assured.
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2006-07-22 08:11:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my father passed away five years ago. and my mother remarried 3 years ago. You will find someone again to love and married.
2006-07-22 08:45:13 · answer #10 · answered by kitty29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋