my dad caught me having sex with my boyfriend and this is what happend?

Question

me and my boyfriend when we are togeather like to play a game we call love/sex wresting and once me dad worked in as my boyfriend and i were making love i was so scared about what he he would say to me that i put some clothes in a bag and grabed sleeping bag and stayed at a mates i went back the next morning to find my best mate sat on my bed with my 2 suitcases pack and she said that my dad had told her that he had seen and she said to me that i was going to live with her.
truthly i was abit happy and abot scared because my best mate is very strict. my dad still hasn't forgiven me
how do i get him to forgive me?
please give us some advice:'(

Answer 1

time will heal your dads broken heart, your his little girl and that is the last thing that he would want to see. he will come around just be patient. Tell him how much you love him

Answer 2

well u did nothing wrong except forgetting to lock the doors. so he walked in so what. u and ur man were bound to do it sometime. besides it was just kissing imagine if u to were screwing. anyways i think u messed up by runnning away. u should have just dealt with it. instead u ran away which is not good. so u should have just seen what happened now ur in this situation. hes ur dad and he loves u and maybe u should respect the rules of the house. so call him and talk. i m sure hes just scared bout what to do. was a first for him so kin of shock but u need to talk. hes ur dad u love him and he loves u.so work it out. say u want to come back and u will not have sex in the house ever again and mean it. hes ur dad just open up to him. so yeah i really wish u didnt run away. u should have kicked bf out and had chat with dad then and there. still u learn from mistakes so good luck

Answer 3

Not sure how old you are, but I'm guessing you're a teenager. I can't imagine how awkward that would have been for all of you -- you, you're boyfriend AND your dad. I'm sure you're embarassed and wanting to avoid talking with your dad about it. But I think if you're going to do grownup things, like making love to your boyfriend, then you need to do the mature thing and talk to your dad. There isn't a bigger wake up call that you're baby girl is growing up, than walking in on that situation. Go back and see your dad, give him a hug, tell him you're sorry that he walked in on that situation, and that you're even sorrier for how you reacted (by leaving and going to your friend's house). Tell him you and your boyfriend care very much about each other, assure him that you and your boyfriend are making good choices (using protection). And tell him that even though you're growing up, it doesn't change the love that you have for him.

I think this situation could drive a wedge between you, or it can make your relationship stronger, depending on how you deal with it. Maybe ask to meet him at a park and go for a walk to have this conversation (neutral territory).

Good luck with it.

Answer 4

First off, you need to apologize. Regardless of how old you are, you are in your father's house. Tell him you are sorry for being disrespectful having sex with your boyfriend under his roof. Tell him you are sorry you tried to run away, but you were afraid you'd disappointed him and couldn't face him. It will blow over. Sex is a natural thing and most everyone does it. Your dad won't be mad forever. And make sure to keep the sexual activity to times when your dad's not going to be home!

Answer 5

running away from the problem only makes it worse. instead, try to learn from this experience and put yourself in your dad's shoes for a minute.

i'm assuming that this happened in your dad's house. i am sure that he's not only in shock of what he's seen, but hurt and upset by the total lack of respect from you and your boyfriend of doing this in your father's home - the place where he, i am sure, your dad works very hard to pay the bills. do you have any younger brothers or sisters? are any older people, like your grandparents still around? what if they walked in on you? can you start to see things from your dad's perspective?

you owe your dad an apology, and the sooner you give it to him, the better. it's going to take some time and effort on your part to win back your dad's trust, and mend this relationship, but you can do it. keep company with people who are good for you. get rid of any of the negative influences. you might want to think about ending things with this boyfriend. if he really cared about you, he wouldn't behave like this in your father's home. you can grow from this situation and become a better person, but only if you truly want to.

Answer 6

Before you can ask someone to forgive you, you need to understand how you have hurt them and why you need to be forgiven. Do you understand why your dad is angry? Maybe you can talk to your best mate's parents (or someone else) who might understand why your dad is so upset. Then, when you go to him asking for forgiveness, you'll know why.

Answer 7

I don't know how old you are. It's one of the worst situation for a father to see this. Other than angry, he might be feeling hurt to have seen you like that. Have a talk with him and break the ice.

Answer 8

first of all how old are you secondly if you are over fourteen then your father needs to sit and have a talk and try to work it out but on the other hand you had too know when a father sees things like that it tears them up inside

Answer 9

time to step up to the plate and become a man instead of an animal

Answer 10

he just loves you.. and knows how love can hurt..
hes just disapointed at you and more so himself for it happened
dont worry it will be ok
take care