Well i like this girl at my school alot, i know her as just a normal friend yet, dont talk to her much but me and my friends and her and her friends were going ice skating and i was wondering if i should go by her when skating and ask ''so how many times u been skating?'' and then fall and then accept her help and let her teach me as an exuse to get to know her a bit better? because i just want to be someone she can trust and run to for help first, please help me?
2006-07-22 00:42:20 · 8 answers · asked by Home Boy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just talk to her
2006-07-22 00:45:57 · answer #1 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good idea, but I reckon it would be better just to go up alongside her and ask her things, starting with the number of times she has been skating. That might start you two talking and you can take it from there. (It would also be a lot more comfortable than falling over!)
She might not really like you, that's just a fact of life. Move on if this happens because there are plenty of other cool girls out there for you to get to know.
But then again, she might REALLY like you, and find you have a lot to talk about. She might want to get to know YOU better as well, and has been waiting for the chance to get talking. Then if you are getting along really well, you could ask her to 'lead by example' and help you with some nifty skating moves! All you need is an ice-breaker.
If you can come across to her as a good-natured, interesting guy who is also interested in her (as a person) she will probably want to get to know you anyway.
Be adventurous and give it a go...you never know, this might just be your lucky moment!
2006-07-22 07:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by The Global Geezer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey man dont try to pull a move like that. more of a player type move. u need to be real and true if u want a girl like how u say. just dont lie. be true to her and tell her hey i see u and never really talk 2 u. why is that. then just make convo. u didnt write ur shy so open up a convo. the way u can be a good friend is to just let it happen naturally. just be careful u dont want to be such good friends she ses u as her gf. i know people who have and its lame cuz they want more and she like no were really good friends. so u want to get to know her talk to her man. real simple and easy to do. then ice skating comes u will be all ready for her in case she falls. so good luck man
2006-07-22 07:54:34 · answer #3 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to know wat she likes and if you share the same interest go up and sit bye her at lunch and talk to her about all the stuff in common. Wat mostly always works is ask her if she wants to be friends wit you. that's Wat i do and it always works later ask her if she wants to go to the movies wit u an you re buddies. BEST OF LUCK GO FOR IT U CAN NEVER HAVE ENOUGH FRIENDS EITHER CAN SHE I MEAN WAT IS THERE TO LOSE i iceskate and if you fall dont fall right in front of her. do ask her how long she been ice skating. ask her if she knows any special moves? If yes ask her if you can see them. Girls love to show of their skillz. if u want to fall try to do a cool iceskating skill it will be cute. laugh it off with her and say thx for helping me get up. If she does call youre freind just let youre freind help you and skate fast to catch up wit her. If she falls help her up. Next time you see her tell her you had a awsome time skatin wit her and ask if she wanted to do it again. open up to her first if you want her to trust you. she cant just assume she can trust you be open talk to her wen u need help on somthin or wit somthin. make her laugh tell a funny joke everybody loves a good joke
2006-07-22 07:53:57 · answer #4 · answered by akinele 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you already know her then just be yourself, don't pull any stupid pranks to get her to notice you, she seems to have already noticed you because your part of her crowd, just talk to her and be honest with her and you'll soon find you have a great friend in her, women love caring men, good luck hope it happens.
2006-07-22 18:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was at school, many years ago, a boy gave me a packet of Malteses (LOL) it broke the ice and to this day we are still really good friends, (Just friends) his family and my family are the best of friends. Just go for it and talk to her
2006-07-22 07:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by noodledoodle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her. Don't fake a fall, you might actually hurt yourself, and what if she just yelled for one of your friends to come help you and then left? Don't risk it!
2006-07-22 07:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by Dave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first thing you should do is not to tell anyone that you like her.........just pretend you don't like her and just be friends then you can do the first step and tell her about your feelings
2006-07-25 10:49:10 · answer #8 · answered by madsallea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋