I have always dreamt of going to Paris. We have never been able to afford it. My brother just came back from Iraq and he is in Germany. He told me to hurry over before he comes home so he can show me around and it will be affordable.
But my husband's 40th birthday is coming up and I am torn between spending the trip $ and buying him a ticket to go Nascar racing for a day at Orlando. He really deserves it. But I finally deserve my wish too.
What to do?
2006-07-22 00:41:13 · 6 answers · asked by skept1c 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I will not discuss this with him because it is supposed to be a SURPRISE! The ultimate surprise for his 40th BIRTHDAY.
2006-07-22 01:05:56 · update #1
PS The question does not ask "How would you feel if your wife didn't discuss a special birthday surprise with you?"
I don't care how you would feel so please keep with the subject.
2006-07-22 01:07:06 · update #2
you might not ever get this opportunity again... nascar will always be there... i think you should take your brother up on his offer. you can always make it up to your husband later....
2006-07-22 00:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by lisalvlarie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a partnership. What are you doing puzzling about this on your own? If you keep it to yourself what ever you decide to do will no doubt give you regrets late.
Talk it over with your partner for goodness sake! If I was in your husbands situation now I would be offended that you did not discuss it with me.
2006-07-22 07:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a very nice 40th birthday to me book the trip pack the bags...Just tell him to make some plans for time alone for his birthday...
Go fur it he will love you for it..
2006-07-22 08:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by canuticklemepink 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have too look at the situation and put it on the other foot will he sacrifice nascar for you too go to paris or not and if he will then let him go to nascar racing and trust me god will bless you and you might go to paris anyway
2006-07-22 07:46:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u could both c u brother together would b great,he deserves it also, i am sure hubby would understand, u brother needs u most i think
2006-07-22 07:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by pocoe42 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NASCAR - next year, Paris now!
2006-07-22 07:50:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋