does the guy lose repest for that girl because she gave in, when there werent married , I mean deep down he feels she can do it again with other guys because they werent married when they had a relationship
2006-07-22 00:30:23 · 31 answers · asked by 67678687 8 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
True Love is about FREEDOM!
Wouldn't you like the one you love to do things that make them happy?
So if you bind someone you don't really love them.. maybe you 'need' them for something you lack!
2006-07-22 00:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Cool Guy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your saying the girl gave in, doesn't that also mean that the guy gave in too ??
If the guy can loose respect for the girl, then so can she about him.
Everybody should marry somebody they can call a best friend - and there you would find a mutual deep respect. Whoever came before that is just part of life, growing as a person and discovering the best person to share your life with in the end.
2006-07-22 00:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by fudge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that society is a bit more evolved than that in this day and age. Having sex before marriage is not looked upon the same today as it was 50 years ago. Some guys may not feel respect toward a woman who has sex or enters a relationship without marriage but I feel that if they are like that they are living too much in the past and are not worth your time.
2006-07-22 00:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by Tazzie Devil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the people involved. There is no straightforward answer. While the ideal thing is to wait till you are married, some people were in relationships that involved sex before getting married.
If a lady behaves properly any guy wants to marry her. There are also some guys who are not looking for good behaviour in a woman; all they want is sex; after all they are not looking for commitment. If you are not lucky and those are the guys you are attracted to, then you are in trouble. All things beeing equal, guys respect girls better if they are perceived as difficult to have sex with.
If he got you easily he thinks others might also get you easily; you know what I'm saying.
2006-07-22 00:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by kboakye1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on the people and their commitment to one another. I've known people who got married in a church, went through all the religious stuff, and still disrespected each other. They cheated, lied, etc. and eventually got divorced. But I've also known people who have lived together without benefit of marriage and have a better relationship than most married people because they genuinely care for each other and respect each other.
A piece of paper (marriage certificate) or a ceremony in front of a state recognized authority does not guarantee love, honor or respect. It's the people themselves who bring those qualities into a relationship.
2006-07-22 00:39:36 · answer #5 · answered by Angry C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that a peice of paper from the government will be able to dictate whether or not a relationship will work, or the amount of respect that the people have for each other. It is the personalities of the individuals themselves and the level of committment they have for the other person. I have known couples who were not married that respected each other 100 times more than some couples who are married.
2006-07-22 00:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by emily_rose_4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's very much depends on the kind of relationship you are in. If you and the guy loves each other truly and you both trust each other totally, then it doesn't matter. It becomes a part of giving and taking in the love. Which makes the love more strong. But that feeling should come from both of you, not one sided.
Then there is no question of thinking other way.
2006-07-25 09:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by dotab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its kinda like this...If someone keeps giving you free samples, why should you buy?
Men & women make the mistake of not seeing that sex is a gift from God. In the context of marriage you can discover all the benefits of this gift. But out side of marriage, it has the oposite affect. Instead of becoming the gift that you were ment to be to your spouse you become a free sample, and why should anyone respect the gift you are. Do you want to be a gift or a free sample?
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2006-07-22 00:38:33 · answer #8 · answered by admyr75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
repest? respect?
guys do not lose respect for a girl because they give in to sex before marriage.
Its a two way process, girls want it as much as guys, I can't be arsed, you should come into the naughties, this isnt the 1950s you know.
2006-07-22 01:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by Dirk Wellington-Catt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both are the same culture and same society and same education or same uneducation and same nature nothing bad
but every thing will be clear with each other parents also without this means cheating emotional blackmailing too and if u take permission from parents what is wrong and if never take ?
2006-07-22 01:30:40 · answer #10 · answered by name of spritual tantra horr0r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all how you look at it. In different countries it has different meanings. In very developed countries it is normal and fun.
In countries where marriages are arranged, it is taboo.
If she has given in before marriage, the guy can always think that she may do it again with another guy. Girls can also think in similar way. So, we can conclude that it is neither right nor wrong but all depends on how society and you look at it.
2006-07-22 00:37:35 · answer #11 · answered by JP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋