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I live in a town of 6,000 jobs are very few, at work for the past yr has been nothing but personal tradgy and turmoil with the administration and coworkers they bring all this to work and envolve you in it call you constantly wanting you to work in their place or for advice I am about to the point of calling it quits even if I have to go on welfare because I doubt I could find a job at this time of yr and at 50 my skills are limited. Any suggestions? I love my job but just can't take the turmoil any more. Thanks for listening

2006-07-22 00:20:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Business & Finance Careers & Employment

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You work in a Toxic Workplace. They are all over the place. As you have figured out, it is NOT a matter of minding your own business. Unless Human Resources or the Manager wants to change the climate, you may just be stuck with it. Maybe you could send out some feelers and see if there is anything out there. You might be surprised what you find. Good luck.

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2006-07-22 00:25:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3 1

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2016-10-08 04:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Outside of pulling your boss aside and letting him or herknow about it, and how it's perhaps hurting overall performance and morale, there' really isn't anytning else you can do.

In small towns where there are not a lot of people, and especially when times are hard for many, this happens. People spend the bulk of their days and lives at work, and sometimes it's hard to leave things at home.

If your boss doesn't intervene and hold a staff meeting or tell people on the QT (quietly and confidentially), then you either have to learn to live with it or get out.

2006-07-22 01:10:08 · answer #3 · answered by msoexpert 6 · 0 0

This sounds like an issue of boundaries. If you allow people to over-step your comfort zone, then you are not being assertive enough. You are putting their wants and needs before you own. Perhaps you could tell them or write them a note and let them know that you empathize with their situation and want to be there for them-- but not during the day at work. Let them know it is affecting your ability to concentrate on your work and that it is stressful for you to deal with it at work. Perhaps you could, if you feel comfortable, tell them that you would enjoy going out for dinner or a drink, etc. and talking, but that when you are at work you want to do what you were hired to do. In the end, you have to take care of yourself and quitting your job is not the way to do that. Just decide what your boundaries are and stick to them. If they try to over-step your boundaries, then you can say something like, "May we discuss this after work?" If you are consistent soon they will learn to respect you.

2006-07-22 00:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by norsktjej1964 4 · 0 0

Do cost/benefit analysis and make a decision! It ain't rocket science!

2006-07-22 00:35:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

mind your own business, for starters.

2006-07-22 00:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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