plz help..=/
2006-07-22 00:13:10 · 16 answers · asked by kiMBERlY :] 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Resisting pressure from peers and friends is very hard, particularly for young people, so it's understandable how you feel. If you can resist the pressure just a day at a time, pretty soon it'll be easier and easier to say no. Is it really worth it to start having sex at 15? Do you know all the ways you can get hurt, get diseases, get pregnant? Why not educate yourself and keep saying no. When you get a bit older, perhaps, and you meet someone you really like and want to have sex because YOU want it, not because other people want you to do it, then go ahead. Sex just to keep friends, sex with people you don't know, sex just for the sake sex is stupid and useless. You have to decide in your own mind if you want to be another chicken among millions of other chickens, or if you want to be a swan among the chickens. Friends who pressure other people to do things aren't friends worth having. A real friend accepts you the way you are and doesn't want you to be any other way...If I were you, I'd spit in the eye of your "friends" and find new ones.
2006-07-22 00:24:29 · answer #1 · answered by Pandak 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its NOT wrong. It's your own body. Don't be pressured to have sex with anybody, let alone a lot of people. Sounds like someone is trying to use you. Be careful!
Also, that can be dangerous, STDs and pregnancy. You should not have a child like that. (I'm not saying you are trying). But it might happen. Both will have affect on you for the rest of your life. Don't be pressured into it at any age, or at any time. Especially when you are 15.
I recommend waiting to atleast 18. (Atleast) And then only when you are ready.
Good luck
2006-07-22 01:34:07 · answer #2 · answered by elliott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong. What is wrong is that people are pressuring you. They should stop bugging you about it after you say 'No'. They might think that having many different lovers is really fun. It might be for them. It might not be for you. You might prefer going steady with just one guy. I'm 32 and have done alot of freaky sh!t and I've found that love is more important than sex. Don't become a whore to please the crowd. You are the one that you have to answer to at the end of the night. Don't dissapoint yourself.
2006-07-22 00:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are many gals out who loose their cherry out at just 14! thinking loosing hymen early will make them hot. But law and science both advise to be 18 frst then do.
But neways u can do if u like and dont if u dont.
2006-07-22 00:17:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO they are trying to get you to make the same misstake they did your first time should be special with the right person at the right time your time not theres tell them to get over it you sound strong stay that way always make your own choices
2006-07-22 00:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are the only judge of how you use your body
at 15 you are young and should enjoy yourself
Be happy as you are , your time will come
ignore all the others, for you are truly special.
Be happy
;o)
2006-07-22 00:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by sweet-cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tons of guys ask u for a sexual favour b'cos everyone wants have the honour of testing the vergin cherry first.
2006-07-22 00:26:08 · answer #7 · answered by sduhbls 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is your will whether you want to enjoy the sex at this age or not.Your thinking is on thee right track.
2006-07-22 01:08:54 · answer #8 · answered by suchsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on the right track.................don't listen to them!!! There are just jealous of you because they have lost the most valueable thing that GOD has given to girls and you have not.......
You should lose it to your lawfully weded hubby, not stray dogs......i hope you understand what i mean......Moreover its too early for a 15yrs old to lose it.............Don't do something that you might regret for the rest of your life...........maybe later years of your life...........
Take Care!!!
2006-07-22 01:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by SATJ12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no thats rong dont i'm not having it untill im married thats the best way and the cleanest.
2006-07-22 00:24:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋