I have given the best life to my ex-girlfriend with her three kids. I become father for her three kids and helped her to raise the children that were not mine. she was five months pregnant by me. when I went away for three days business trip I come home she decided to have sex in my house with her ex boyfriend. i cant even look at her without disappointment, that she would break my trust and cheat, when i have been fateful. What do i do?
2006-07-21 23:42:02 · 9 answers · asked by Father 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
one month after god give me baby girl who I love to death. She abandoned us and I was raising my baby girl until she came and kidnapped my baby and ran to police and got a restraining order against me. I have not seen my baby for past 25 days. I have court date for another 10 days. Where is justice for doing good and being punished and suffering by this woman?
2006-07-22 00:00:40 · update #1
Five months later god gives me a baby girl who I love her to death. Again, she abandoned my one month baby and I. Which I had the pleasure of raising my own baby girl for 4 months. After five months joy her mother came and kidnapped my baby and ran to police and got a restraining order against me. I have not seen my baby for past 25 days. I have court date for another 10 days. Where is justice for doing good and being punished and suffering by this woman?
2006-07-22 00:09:36 · update #2
Before I forget, the ex-boyfriend was the father of the three kids and he was convicted of manufacturing Methamphetamine and was in jail for the past 4 years.
2006-07-22 00:30:34 · update #3
Leave her and take your children. If she loves her ex so much, then they can raise their other children. You give her visitation rights as much as the law demands and no more, if she even wants to visit.
You continue to stay and you're just a sucker and you'll never get better... she obviously did not appreciate you enough that she could not wait three days for you to return.
Plus, if she's five months pregnant and still that horny, then she must have been doing something more than those things and this incident is the FIRST that you've found out...
With her, I'd do a paternity test on all of the kids that are supposedly yours...
2006-07-21 23:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ouch! That must of hurt. This person has no respect for you what so ever.It sounds like you have done your best when it comes to your ex partner and her family, however she has taken advantage of the situation. When children are involved, the situation becomes a lot harder whether the children be yours or not. Generally i would have advised marriage counseling, however in your situation I highly doubt that would work. The next best thing would to be move out after the baby is born so that you have your right as a father to see and support the unborn baby. There is no trust in your relationship no more. What are you going to do ?give up your job?
2006-07-22 00:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wasn't 5 months pregnant, I would of said get the shotgun out. It's a tough situation finding your girl been cheating. Hard on the ego as well. Obviously she cannot be trusted and therefore you must leave her. You have probably made a bond with the other three children and that is a shame, but if she cheated on you once dude, I can guarantee she will do it again. Good Luck with it.
Oh yeah one more thing, I would most definitely get a paternity test done and see if the child is actually yours. Once again another shot to the ego, but your ego can heal, money going to a child that is not yours, you can't get that back.
2006-07-21 23:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How absolutely awful...the most awful of all is you can't exactly walk away from her and get on with your life as there is a child involved in all of this now. All you can do is sustain a good friendship with your girlfriend and be a good dad to your child. With respect, I don't think it's in your best interests to continue a loving relationship with this girl unless this was a one time mistake (Everyone deserves a second chance) - If not, move on but be there for the child.
2006-07-21 23:50:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some say love, it is a river that drowns the tender reed.
Some say love, it is a razor that leaves your soul to bleed.
Some say love, it is a hunger, an endless aching need.
I say love, it is a flower, and you it's only seed.
It's the heart, afraid of breaking, that never learns to dance.
It's the dream, afraid of waking, that never takes a chance.
It's the one, who won't be taken, who cannot seem to give.
And the soul, afraid of dying, that never learns to live.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. Love is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.
2006-07-21 23:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Frankly gals only crude at giving again the love that we experience for them. in quite some situations i discover myself between a argument between my my heart and my mind. over the years i have discovered that emotions fade yet your mind pretty a lot under no circumstances fade.
2016-10-15 01:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a real sinner, unfaithful, and not loyal to you. This is my advice, please don't live with her anymore if you are a real honest and faithful guy.
Thanks
2006-07-21 23:57:09 · answer #7 · answered by M S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is awful, You sound like a really great guy and she doesn't seem to appreciate that. I can't believe people do things like this to people they love. All I can say is I wouldn't stay in a relationship with someone who did that to me. For you that is your choice. I wish you luck.
2006-07-21 23:46:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang she did you dirty 4 real if i was you a cheat back on-her or leave her
2006-07-21 23:46:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋