Everythng was great at first then I started calling him too much and wanted to see him all the time he said I was being imature and thought I was different, I am 46 he is 32. I really want the friendship back more than anything.
2006-07-21 23:28:10 · 7 answers · asked by cherry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yup there's been damage all right
but don't worry, its nothing that cant be fixed. or can it?
ask yourself do you really want to have that friendship again? obviously he has made it clear that he doesn't want any "personal" relationship with you. the question is. if you were to "patch" things up. Will everything be the same? will the trust be restored as it was before? in my opinion the answer is no, it will not be the same. and if you really think about it, maybe his friendship is something you WANT but you don't really NEED.
Am i implying that you avoid this person ? no , no and a thousand No's.. all am saying is now that you know where you stand. show him that you are mature enough to accept that you perhaps did mess it up, and by the same token are mature enough to take the initiative to fix up the situation at hand.
TAKE INTO CONSIDERATION THAT THIS IS ONLY MY OPINION, AND ITS BASED ONLY ON THE FEW DETAILS AND OR FACTS THAT YOU PROVIDED.
best of luck!
2006-07-21 23:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
y did u have 2 sleep wit him in da first place???
well neways...wat u'v to do is leave him alone and he'd come back himself...if he dosent u guys were never meant 2 b
2006-07-22 07:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by Durdana Farid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 questions the same - so you slept with him 4 times?
2006-07-22 06:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by XT rider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmm an eternal question that will draw all the eternal responses..
2006-07-22 08:22:36 · answer #4 · answered by wollemi_pine_writer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL HE FEELS LIKE YOUR NAGGING AND PRESSURING HIM JUST BACK OFF A WHILE AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS
2006-07-22 06:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that often happens. sometimes that is why they are your friend to start with.
2006-07-22 06:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by 333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't we just answer this?
2006-07-22 06:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋