so is there a way, without seeming evil...........?

Question

so is there a way, without seeming evil, to make it clear that you don't want to be friends with someone you just want to sleep with them. so i met this guy really hot really nice body, beautiful face, he can sing like all hell, but nothing about him makes me want to make him anything more then someone to sleep with. He doesn't really have a personality. I have not slept with him, but would really like to, so i want to let him know this without losing the oppertunity to sleep with him.

and its not that i am evil i just feel like thats kind of amean thingto say to someone.

Answer 1

Well honesty never hurt anyone. Before I met my current partner I used to have one night stands or 'sex' buddies, but I never felt the need to lie to them about where our relationship was going. You can make things clear to someone without being mean, The point is that if you really don't want to be evil and misleading the only way to do it is to be honest.

Answer 2

I don't understand why you want to sleep with him if he hasn't got an iota of personality. That would probably mean utter boredom in the bedroom.

Then again, for me sex has to involve the brain, too. Even if I'm not in a relationship with that person we've got to click on some level or else we're just swapping spit and there's no anticipation.

Answer 3

It's not evil, it happens all the time. If you both feel the same way, enjoy.

Answer 4

now this is coming from a male trust me ok... all guys want to sleep with chicks without knowing them or at least i do soo soo if this guy is hawt"" he woudl rather sleep that know u ok

Answer 5

So what, you are evil but don't want to seem that way? Why care?

Answer 6

so tell him upfront that you're only interested in the sex.

Answer 7

do him and run!