My girlfriend still sees her husband even though we live together. She says they will always be friends. She is from Thailand and he is from the US they met in Thailand and married. We met and work and had an affair and she left him. She still goes to lunch with him and on occasion goes back to their house to stay. She says she misses the house and that nothing is going on...if I ask she gets mad and tells me I don't trust her. I'm sick of it. what should I do?
2006-07-21 23:20:28 · 8 answers · asked by Pam C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you have every reason to question her. tahts not right. see if shes staying friends because kids are involved then yea i can understand but still she doesnt need to go to his house all the time and go to lunches. She shouldnt be missing the house at all. Make her choose its eaither you are her. you dont need or deserve that kind of crap., if she protests against you telling her that then there is your answer. Sorry it would be time for you to moive on without her. If she cheated on him with you... why would she not cheat on your with someone else? Good luck :)
2006-07-21 23:34:51 · answer #1 · answered by Kittie_Nash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, is this her ex husband, or husband, and are you two lesbian?
If you two are lesbian now and this is her ex husband but she still goes to see him for 'lunch' then obviously something is happening or else why would you continue to see each other after divorce? They don't have children so it's not like they should still have an emotional tie.
That girl is playing you for a fool because she's "bi" although I personally don't believe in "bi" people, even if she is Thai... :)~
2006-07-22 06:25:12 · answer #2 · answered by DarthFangNutts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm most likely she is still sleeping with him... Get out while you can. It doesn't make sense that she goes over to the house and actually sometimes stays there.. I think that is a huge clue you should not miss.
2006-07-22 06:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its time you get on with your life, without her. Sounds to me like there is definitely something going on. Anyway, she isn't ready for a relationship with you, cause, she cant give up her past. Until she does that, she will always be living in the past, and you will always be the #2 guy. Shes having her cake and eating it too.
2006-07-22 06:55:53 · answer #4 · answered by me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them both and get rid of the drama...
2006-07-22 06:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by mswn4 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DONT YOU SAY THAT YOU ARE INTERESTED IN A THREESOME IF SHE AGREES THEN YOU KNOW SHE STILL LIKES HIM THAT WAY! that should catch her out!
2006-07-22 06:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by Katey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with them
2006-07-22 06:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by benjjjjjjj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO GET ANOTHER GIRL FREIND
2006-07-22 06:23:57 · answer #8 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋