everyday i go to skl. listen to boring teacher lesson. dun talk to people[im antisocial, i hv no frens]. go back home straight after school. at home on the comp and start surfing blogs/lj. on weekends i also stay at home the whole day. i hv no interest in anything. im too boring. will i die of boredom? how can i change my life.
brb im 14 girl living in singapore.
2006-07-21 22:59:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Let me make one thing clear:Nobody is boring, no matter who they are.May be it's just that you didn't show the exciting part of yourself.Why dont you talk to your mates?Is it because they are boring?Or are you scared?
If it is because they are boring,,then you have to change the way you look at life.Our attitudes change because of our atmosphere at home or elsewhere.You might be depressed by what is going on at home or anywhere...(you have not mentioned why u feel bored) Anyways, here are some tips:
1.Get involved in the class,,listen to your mates.People love good listeners.If u listen to ppl that can make them think ur friendly
2.Smile at ur mates once u enter the class.See the difference.
3.Notice the students who are enjoying themselves.Think about what makes them happy.
4..Meet a counselor for making a healthy relationship with others
5.Read books, they are your best friends
6.Friends are needed but dont think you can depend on them for everything
7.life is short so make the best use of it.Work for ur career.
I have many friends but none of 'em are my best but i always go around in the world of books. If you need any more help jst hit me up
2006-07-21 23:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by cinnomone queen 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
U r still young. Try to mix around with your friends, there must be some reason why u dun talk to people. Sometimes it is good to take the initaitive.
Just like what U have done now, U have post a question and people from all over the world is trying to help U. It is up to U whether U want to accept them as your friend even though some of us may be much older than U.
U won't die of boredom coz there are a lot more interesting out there for you to explore. Take your time to explore and you will find life is very interesting.
Have a nice weekend
2006-07-22 00:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont scare to read a lengthy answer, but see the instructions.
See..... Only a human being can live his life as he likes. Death is not an answer to a question. If that is the answer, No one will be alive on this earth.
If u feel life is boar, It seems like boar only.
U have to modify ur life.
U Love other.. then only other can love u.
***U will have some tastes.. According to those tastes, U choose one Hobbby..
***Study Personality Development Books. Books will give the more knowledge Share that knowledge with others. So that friends will enter into ur life..OK
****U have ur lovely family members, Spend more time with them.
Friendship is the Precious thing in life.
Select a good person, share ur feelings with him. Obviously he will understand and will become a good friend.
2006-07-21 23:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are such a boring person. Just need some time to relax yourself. At your age is better to stay at home. I had seen a lot of kids at your age going bad then regard in the later life. Well you can do some jogging during the evening will make you less boring.
2006-07-21 23:12:59 · answer #4 · answered by Clive 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u will meet a lover and fall deeply in love ---
then u will be terribly hurt by that lover
causing u great pain
then that pain will turn into anger
then you will focus that anger to make yourself into somebody - then you will break every man's heart you meet
then find your way into some prestigous profession such as actress or model or musician ------ u will be rich and have it all - but all your wealth and fame can never quite fill the hole or take away the pain from the lover that scorned you - and you think to yourself - i should have stayed at home and been a boring person
2006-07-21 23:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to just stop loving someone, u may watch movies and crave that fairy tale romance but the truth of the matter is, happiness and that fairytale ending is hard to find, not all relationships will last forever, but once u find ht eone whikch will u will no for sure, this is the person u want to spend the rest of ur life with
2016-03-27 02:55:06 · answer #6 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate communicate communicate with people you trust and respect. Seek answers till you find that makes sense. At your age I guess most children have this feeling. Believe me you will get out of it very fast. The fact that you put his question on the web and you are seeking answers is already a very good sign. Explore your life and be enlightened.
Have fun.
2006-07-22 01:54:55 · answer #7 · answered by rafayb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's this gnawing emptiness in my heart
i don't know why
its that old feeling again
of being surrounded with friends yet feeling so alone
my heart's so heavy; its sinking
i find it difficult to breathe
i laugh but actually i cry
life's a stageplay
close the curtain on me
2006-07-21 23:29:31 · answer #8 · answered by Princess illusion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think like that life is too big but as boring as u think
don't worry that u hav no frends
think me as ur frend i am student of st.aloysius manglore-india
if u would like iwill ur frend forever
plz mail me abt this
this my e- mail id ng_prahalad@yahoo.co.in
plz mail me
2006-07-21 23:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
create new things for your life.practice your hobbies,try to make some friends and believe me then your life will be fantastic.
2006-07-21 23:06:12 · answer #10 · answered by doly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋