I really want people to have respect for me. But I feel because of my hair color and body people don't. I was born with really blonde hair and also have big breasts that are natural, I am not bragging, my breasts really bother me because of the hurtful things girls say about me. Like i'm a slut and they don't even know me. The truth is I would do anything for anyone. I like my hair but people say such mean things about blondes. I don't think just blondes are beautiful, woman in general no matter what their hair color are beautiful. Do you have any advice or helpful hints for me?
2006-07-21 22:48:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Thank you girls, I really thought people would say mean things to me but you didn't. I would love to choose all of you for best answers.
2006-07-21 23:03:11 · update #1
people will have a lot of respect for you if you stay strong and be yourself. You shouldn't need to have to change yourself just because other people are insecure about themselves. did you ever think that they might be jealous of you? if you like your hair, keep it. i've got very curly hair and i love it. many people have asked me why i don't just straighten it. why should i? i'm happy with my hair. the important thing is that you should do what makes you happy. only dye your hair if you feel the need for a bit of change. i sumtimes have my hair blow-waved but i still love my curls. ur breasts shouldn't bother you. like i said, the others are just jealous. your beautiful the way you are.
Good luck and don't change for anyone unless it makes you happy too. :)
2006-07-21 22:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by jade 3 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Jealousy. Plain and simple.
The best thing to do? Be YOURSELF. I know people's comments can be very hurtful... but girls will always find something to make snide comments about. Changing your hair colour may help for a while... but you never know what they'll start in on next.
If you're blonde, be a proud blonde. Break the stereotype. Just because the jokes are out there it doesn't make them true. Show them all that despite the jokes there are still intelligent blondes out there... women that have a good head on their shoulders, and who don't use their looks/sex to get further in the world.
Females rip into other females when they feel threatened.
If you exert self-confidence, you'll gain respect. Do the right thing regardless of popularity... integrity gains respect as well.
Good luck to you!
(There are stereotypes about all hair colours... by the way... like red heads having fiery tempers...)
2006-07-22 07:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Rhaneieve 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes girls can be very cruel to other girls, even worse than boys, sometimes. I'm not sure why this is, but they are probably trying to make you feel small so they can feel superior.
I'll bet everyone says not to let it bother you, but I know that it does! My advice is not to hang around with people who make you feel bad, and try to find other friends.
I can promise you that, as you get older, it will get easier. It will never be truly easy for a beautiful girl, because there are jealous, mean people everywhere, but it WILL be easier.
Good luck, and get some sleep!
2006-07-22 05:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your hair is natural blonde don't worry about it. People can see that it's natural and mature people won't make fun and call you names. It's only the childish ones who will do that. If your breasts are too big and make you uncomfortable try to wear tops that don't accentuate them. Wear looser tops. Most of all don't worry about what 'kids' say, even your peers. They will grow up one day. Good luck and be happy that your a natural blonde!
2006-07-22 06:14:23 · answer #4 · answered by ctryhnny04 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if YOUR happy with how you look then be happy! Dont worry about what other people say or think. People that say mean things usually have low selfesteem and have to belittle someone to make them selves feel better. Stay blonde, stay happy, laff at the jokes. If you laff at teh jokes, you take away someone meanness and then THEY LOSE!
2006-07-22 07:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please dont dye your hair coz you may regret it. I remember i use to get picked on coz of the colour of my hair and i too was hurt and wanted to dye it but my mum and mates kept telling me not to coz my hair is gorgeous and that there all just jealous.
You just need to ignore them....there jealous thats why! there probably all thinking "....god i wish i coluld look as gorgeous as her!" : )
Im so glad that i didnt dye my hair a different colour coz i wouldnt look like me and the same for you too.
2006-07-22 06:21:33 · answer #6 · answered by sophie482000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just got to ignore it! Most people only say that crap because they're jealous. Peace:)
2006-07-22 05:52:56 · answer #7 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋