2006-07-21 22:20:07 · 9 answers · asked by i_try2001 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'ts called doubt! Whenever we make a commitment to "anything" the mind gives you a thousand reasons why not to. The question is are you going to listen to "mind" or follow your direct expereince of a thing. Till death us do part is a contract of "no choice" and when the minds choices are taken away it rebels everytime, hence the pyramids of divorce statistics. Are you going to end up as another dis-illusioned virgin attached to her fairy story coming true? and then wonder why it didnt? Have you noticed when you realy want something you never have doubts as it flows through naturally. I suggest you look at what your payoff is that your attached to in gettting married! Is it approval? fantasy? or you think it will make your life that is already working work out even more? By the way it already worked out! Don't forget marriage is built on religious dogma and cultural myth and very very rarely do they last in the 20-35 age groups as people havn't had enough expereinces in life to know what they want. This is where you get your object lessons for what you don't want by the way.
2006-07-21 22:50:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, very natural. Just make sure if you decide not to get married, tell the person you are getting married to and not just stand them up. If do get married then there is nothing to worry about and you can forget all about it. No one needs to know.
2006-07-22 05:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by PeachyPies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely! It's a big step. You just have to remember why you said yes in the first place!
2006-07-22 05:22:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not normal but it does happen to some. I have not idea why except to say that they might not be truly ready for the committment.......
2006-07-22 05:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is, but to what degree is you feet getting? If yur toes are falling off ......RUN don't walk to the nearest exit.
2006-07-22 05:23:35 · answer #5 · answered by gigigal906 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-22 05:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by NONAME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is, I sure did.
2006-07-22 05:22:43 · answer #7 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know sry
2006-07-22 05:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sure is.
It will pass.
Just enjoy your day!!!!
2006-07-22 05:43:25 · answer #9 · answered by hoggyslapper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋