I'm 19 and I didnt have it yet,
is it ok or I had to start it long back?
2006-07-21 22:02:50 · 12 answers · asked by QuestionAnswer 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Wait till you are married!
There is no purpose in rushing this, it's not like you have a deadline there.
2006-07-21 22:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by eaglewings4u 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am 20 and haven't had sex yet either. Hang in there though man, we can make it through this thing. It like everybody my age range that I know of have lost thier virginity or have found that other person to have sex and live thier life with. I feel like I a bad person or doing something wrong since I still a virgin and all my friends not. I am not wrong though and me staying a virgin will pay off in the long run. It will do the same for you as well.
Just wait til you find that right person in your life and share that moment of losing your virginity with her on that special night. You will feel good and be glad that you waited til that special moment in life. You may think you need to have sex cause everybody else your age is but actually you don't need it. You will be fine if you don't have sex til later in life or with that special person in your life.
Another thing is if you are actually ready to have sex and face the consequences that could possibly happen. I am meaning the risk of getting a girl pregnant and having a kid that you are not ready to have yet? Can you support a kid at such a young age? The risks of getting an STD that will be with you the rest of your life. Are you ready for all this? If you are not, than you are not ready for sex. I don't even want to think of what it would be like living if I got an STD at this young of an age. I myself want to have a kid, I love kids and just want to have one of my own right now it seems like. Am I ready for one though? No, I may think I am when in all reality I am not ready for one. How am I suppose to juggle work, school, than a kid on top of that?
2006-07-22 04:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by jacoboctober11 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is not like getting a drivers license, you don't have to start at a certain age. Wait until you are ready, I was 15 but it really wasn't that great the first time. Anyways you can't go back and do it way back so move on and make it worth it!
2006-07-21 22:10:10 · answer #3 · answered by starchild_kisschild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had sex with a naked man at 21 years old and this because I didn't met the boy who I considered he deserved me. But in my mind I think that I made sex when I started the high-school meaning about 14 years old. I don't think that u have a problem but be carefully to not run after "green stars" who can hurt u. maybe is better to try with a woman paid for this who will teach u something and u don't have the possibility to fall in love.......
2006-07-21 22:11:40 · answer #4 · answered by myown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 24, now I'm 63. Don't worry about it. It doesn't make any difference. And don't feel bad if your first time isn't great. Sex always has been best for me if I loved the woman and she loved me back. God says we're supposed to wait until we're married. If I would have done that I would have saved myself a lot of pain and heartache.
2006-07-21 23:44:48 · answer #5 · answered by Smartassawhip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont rush people make out to be a big and amazing thing but its not, wait till yuor ready.
2006-07-22 00:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Peanuts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had my first at 20 and I'm a male. that's amazing.
2006-07-21 22:06:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait
2006-07-22 10:45:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont rush it
when u get married ur wife will appreciate it :)
2006-07-22 06:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by Mj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats ur own choice...if u aint ready u aint ready! i did it when i was 15 :(
2006-07-21 22:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋