my wife started on yahoo answes and then she got to chat at yahoo messengers .she met some guys started chatting it became an obssesion she neglets me she saya theres no problem .i see the problem she wants to meet with this guys she will not admit it .i have caught her she told me she would stop then i caught her again she says it's just a game .yet i see her she simms gone away in love she says it's because she worried .if she don't love me tell me i dont want to hold her back im setting her free but she wont tell me need advise pls help
2006-07-21 21:16:37 · 9 answers · asked by smiley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is a test-
Disable the connection, BEFORE she gets on. then blame her for it not working, then later say you got a call from your ISP saying the connection was hijacked due to someone finding out your real name (whoever the account is under)
If she stays quiet, she really gave her real name and number, probably City address, therefore she really was having an on-line relationship. If she says "who did that" then you can still blame some guys for setting her up, anyhoo, it should work, if you play it correctly then you wont get blamed and find out the truth.
You can also buy a key logger - you put it between the keyboard and PC connection and know everything that was typed.
Hope this helps!
Girls feel free to do this too, on-line cheating of any kind is wrong.
2006-07-21 21:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where a lot of messaging is pretty innocent, sometimes they can cause problems. Just remind her that there is a lot of guys out there that is sicko's, and she needs to be careful. She may just be playing a game, but they may not be. If it is to the point that you feel she is spending too much time on the computer chatting, distract her, give her a reason to get away from the computer to spend time with you.
But if you are the jealous type, she may just be trying to make you jealous and get your attention. So then just reassure her that your not giving her up, and you love her dearly.
I often think it is silly that people get divorced over just chatting on the computer. If it breaks up a relationship, the relationship wasn't that strong in the first place. Sometimes you just have to trust someone, people live out fantasies on the net, something that they would never do in real life.
Good luck.
2006-07-22 04:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by kazoo1991 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK THE TRUTH IS THAT I WAS HER AAT ONETIME..AND MY EX LEFT ME CAUSE I WOULD ALWAYS DO WHAT SHE IS DOING..ITS TRUE ITS MORE THAN GAMES...YOU SHOULD CHECK TO SEE WHAT SHE TALKS ABOUT ON MESSENGER.IF U KNOW HOW TO READ ARCHIVES LOL I AM NOT TRYING TO DOWN HER BUT..I WISH I COULD TURN BACK TIME AND HAD SPEND MORE TIME WITH MY EX INSTEAD OF GUYS ON THE INTERNET...LATE AT NIGHT OR HOURS AND HOURS DAY AFTER DAY...SHE IS FLIRTING WITH SOMEONE ON THE NET...AS FOR ME NOW I LEARNED MY LESSON...I LOSST MY MAN FOR A SSTUPID FANTASY ON LINE...GOODLUCK AND CHECK THAT ARCHIVE THEN U CAN TELL FOR SURE
2006-07-22 04:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she wants to meet with these guys that is trouble for you, she is most likely going to cheat on you. My ex-boyfriend did that to me once, he tricked me to even talking to his girls he called friends, they said they wanted to meet eachother, just because they were online friends long ago, but a while later I found a picture of her vagina on our email, we were living together and I trusted him, he said he asked her for the pic, he thought about cheating on me, but he didn't. I thought of how many other girls was he doing that with, he had a lot of girl friends on his YIM, I didn't ever feel the same, can't trust him with the computer anymore. It made me sad to think about, that he wanted to do that, still does, I still love him though, we stayed together for a while but we had other issues so were split.. If your wife goes through with meeting these guys leave her, she wants to cheat.
2006-07-22 04:29:01 · answer #4 · answered by Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need not have to worry at all. she has a craze towards chating to some new ones.she will soon get bored of that and will continue to concentrate on u soon
2006-07-22 04:30:28 · answer #5 · answered by light feather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the same thing. Once she See's, she'll be jealous and stop.
2006-07-22 04:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by Cordy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah give me your wife's email address and i'll talk to her.
2006-07-22 04:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the computer, take her ona romantic get away.
2006-07-22 11:36:00 · answer #8 · answered by steelangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid.
2006-07-22 04:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by tunachunks199 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋