Im 20 years old and im bi i havent com out yet but thats because im confused i only want to go one way or the other either be gay or go strait i can be both because i dont no how i will spend the rest of my life plz plz help
2006-07-21 20:42:01 · 9 answers · asked by Bobandy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You are only 20, quit beating yourself up. It isn't time to settle down. Have fun, look at your options. And if you are truly bi going one way or the other is not going to make you happy. And if you are just transitionally bi, you aren't going to be happy going straight. Take a couple of years and figure out what you want. Maybe you will find love along the way to help you make your decision.
2006-07-21 20:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by kiz_ma_az 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Modern Christian/Judaic/Muslim culture demands that people Label themselves - - in more enlightened ancient times people in their teens and twenties played around on both sides of the fence and then in their mid twenties most of them settled into marriage with a woman because they were expected to create children. Please, give yourself time, don't fence yourself in until you get older. There is a lot to explore, no need to cry into your pillow, go have a good time.
2006-07-22 03:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by JVHawai'i 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...I'd say chill out. Date whoever comes at you and quit stressing about fitting into a label. You sound like one of the many individuals for whom labels do more harm than good.
2006-07-25 08:28:14 · answer #3 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Experiment both ways and then decide what you liked best, what brings you the most pleasure? Have you had a man yet?
2006-07-22 09:44:18 · answer #4 · answered by Chuck 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to just play the field my friend. I ran straight to the cock and have never strayed. You will figure it all out in time. Just have fun and be safe.
2006-07-22 03:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by Gynolotrimena Lubriderma-Smith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confucius say;solution for muddy waters...time
2006-07-22 03:59:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not deny any aspect of yourself. If you are bi do not deny one part of your sexuality.
2006-07-23 13:52:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do the gay thing is so easy
2006-07-22 03:47:50 · answer #8 · answered by powernewfie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, duh! you're only 20, so you're just getting started.
lighten up, and go with the flow of things.
2006-07-22 10:12:51 · answer #9 · answered by My Big Bear Ron 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋