How can a woman make her first time less painful?
2006-07-21 20:23:46 · 24 answers · asked by Matty Lynn 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Actually, in my opinion, it is up to the man (more than the woman) to make a woman's first time less painful. But here are some tips to share with that man...A woman will have a LOT less pain her first time if the man she is with takes things slow and easy. Being aroused at the time of ACTUAL intercourse helps ease the way. Lots of foreplay and loving attention are the best way to avoid a painful first time. The more aroused the body is, the more lubrication it will produce, and the easier the whole experience will go. Hope that helps!! I didn't want to get into too much detail...
2006-07-21 20:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by lilonemunchkin 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
First make sure you have safe sex and you need to relax...Every girl who has her first love making,Will still have some sort of pain and you really won't enjoy having sex the first time...It's like a breaking in thing,The more sex you have the loser you become...Don't go out and just have sex with anybody,It will take time...You need a guy or man who will be very gentle with you and take it slow...Good Luck My Friend...
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2006-07-22 03:34:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lubrication would help, I would say topical anesthesia but that would probably just make it last really long on the guys end. But basically the first time for a woman who hasn't yet had her hymen broken will hurt, unless you've already used a dildo or similar device to pleasure yourself, then you will be used to it inside of you. Although the first experience either way will hurt you.
2006-07-22 03:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i didnt think my first time was all that painful. be sure you are arroused as this helps your body to make its own lubrication but have some on hand any way. your boy friend must be patient and careful and slow at first if he will not be get out of there he only cares about himself you can always say stop but better to just get away. use a condom and some other form of birth control no matter what you use be sure to ALWAYS use a condom. i hope it is a good experince for. good luck and have fun
2006-07-22 03:32:32 · answer #4 · answered by med savy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really be into the guy your matting for the first with .Y ou wont think about the pain much . even though some of your pain consist 's of your partner and we all know that pain is Love .
2006-07-22 03:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try To Sex with a Person Whose Things r not bigger
2006-07-22 03:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by Ruchs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to have sex with a loser. It'll compensate for the physical discomfort.
2006-07-22 03:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by Michael D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure there is a lot of 4 play first.....for your own lubrication and to calm the nerves that go along with it....
2006-07-22 03:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by valerie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go slow and take lie some kind of pain killer the legel kindss oooooooo getting drunk too
2006-07-22 03:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by Pinkt41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't ...it is going to be that way because your body has never done that before and the area will be really tight. so no lubrication will help because they guy will be basically breaking through ...so it won't be fun.
2006-07-22 03:27:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋