After you do all these things these gals are saying
she will think you are boring and decide she likes you like a
brother.
Do yourself a favor and un-learn all the nice guy stuff. Im not
saying be a jerk, but this advice that they are giving will land
you a friend who is a girl, but not a girl who is attracted to you.
2006-07-21 20:27:58
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answered by Anonymous
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Chivalry is a good start.
Holding a door open. Politeness. A non-foul mouth unless you want to attract that kind of girl.
Don't act stupid. If you're alittle nervous let her know- depending on the girl though- you can still be confident and a little nervous- after all Cher and Barbara Steisand still get stage fright!
Honesty is a good policy.
A nice smile.
A sincere personality.
Fresh breath. (Baking soda and salt are a natural teeth whitener.. use a little in the morning or before bed and then brush with regular toothpaste...)
DO NOT fiddle with your crotch- why do guys do that- it's gross! Go and adjust in the bathroom.
Offer to buy her a drink- don't suggest an alcoholic beverage unless she is already drinking one- offer her a bottle of water if you are out.
Pay for dinner.
If you don't then leave the tip.
If you do neither offer to pay next time.
Girls want some attention. Some thoughtfulness. Some caring. Very similar to men- only many girls consider a marathon event non-stop shopping for hours....
Find out about her- try to remember some things she says and build on it later. Maybe she orders the same drink or food or buys the same candy alot. Although that does depend on how long you have known her.
BE nice but not Creepy.
Invite her somewhere- not to a bar- again unless you want that kind of girl.
Coffee or lunch are a good start- more friendly less pressure.
Be sure to wear clean clothes. If you are accident prone then try to carry an extra shirt in your car or in a back up place (locker or office).
Wear arm deodorant. Wear some cologne.
Listen to her and she will listen back.
Can't think of anything else at this second....
But it's a start....
Be yourself not someone else... You are you. Not anyone else. And if they can't appreciate you as you are with out knowing that people grow and change- then maybe you don't need that particular person to notice you- want someone who wants you for you and who you want for themselves too.
2006-07-22 03:33:59
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answered by Anonymous
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number one learn to spell and use proper english. be clean, dress nice and clean if you cant be fashionable at least be clean. speak nicely, respectfully, offer to cary her books, hold the door for her, and so on, sure this is oldfashioned, but it never goes out of fashion to treat a girl like a lady, tell her she looks nice or gave a nice report in class or something like that. dont act like a jerk.
2006-07-22 03:23:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Talk to them. Friendly, though. Don't use any lines. Just be yourself & be honest. Don't be crude or try to have a nasty sense of humor. Of course, dress nicely, don't look really slouchy or nasty.
2006-07-22 03:22:04
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answered by Me in TN 2
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1. try talking to her
2. find out what she wants and give it to her
3. ask her out
4. be really nice to her
5. be yourself
6. flirt with her
7. have a friend be a go-between
u might not want to do number 7
2006-07-22 03:20:54
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answered by Maggieee:] 3
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he should be nice and helpful 2 the gal...n handsome. if ur not handsome... NO way 2 get a gal 2 notice ya. unless ur the gal's friend...
2006-07-22 03:34:53
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answered by cutegal_16 1
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act like yourself and if your fine let girls come up to u and flirt with her and up to the girl talk to and ask her out
2006-07-22 03:21:37
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answered by chi chi h 1
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try making eye contact and talking to them and smelling reallly good try tommy, joop,swiss army, or anthign mambo
2006-07-22 03:21:51
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answered by Pinkt41 2
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Smile... Approach her and say hi... Flirt.. And ask her for her phone number!!!
2006-07-22 03:21:58
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answered by Cordy 2
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Be a good person. Don't try to be unnaturally good.
2006-07-22 03:22:34
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answered by Sar 1
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