My 38 yr old immature sister has a thing with me and uses my teenagers to get back at me for things that happened between her and I as kids. she has sort of brain washed my 2 girls. she tells them that i am unfair and that i need to stop giving my girls strict rules. She allows them to go ahead and stay out late at night, which my kids are not used to doing. she allows them to talk to older men both on the phone and in MY Space, and now in person. She tells them to go ahead and break my rules and then promises that she will cover for them and explain everythng to me. Does anyone agree that i keep my kids away from her? she can't be trusted with them. And to all who live in Arizona west phoenix valley ...You all know that we have serial killer and a rapist in our community. we parents are keeping our doors locked and our kids indoors and as safe as possible. my sis and I do not have a bond together really and it's sad to say that I would rather not have anything to do with her anymore.
2006-07-21 20:04:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to tell your sister to butt out of your family. And if she doesn't distance yourself and your family from her. She has no right ot do those things. Those are your daughters, not hers. Tell her she can do what she wishes with her own daughters, but to leave the parenting of those girls to you. Be stern with your daughters if they get mad at you.
2006-07-21 20:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
This is a sad question, but of course you should put your children`s safety first, maybe you could get the police to talk to your teenager`s to explain about the serial killer & rapist, I think they will believe him, and realise that you are not being unfair, and your sister is trying to stir up trouble. Now for the sister problem, just tell her that the way she has been acting could have put your teenager`s lives in danger, so you dont want her near you or your`s again. In this case Blood is not as thick as water.
2006-07-21 20:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by madge 51 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would make sure that your teenagers stay away from your sister for awhile. They are YOUR kids after all, not hers. If you want them to have contact with your sister, have them talk to her on the telephone or arrange for your sister to come over, but so that your kids can't leave. You could always contact the Dr. Phil show, but there is publicity among other things involved with that.
2006-07-21 20:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by z1a2q3x4s5w6c7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not imagine you may want to delve into the psychological for the answer to this; only imagine logically. Teenagehood is the most difficult part of human social progression, if only because it is the most necessary. it is the transition between childhood and adulthood, and maximum little ones are confronted with better quantities of duty. they're advised to stop performing like children, yet many people nonetheless manage them like children. Plus, their recommendations and body are dealing with emotional and chemical ameliorations which confuse them and commence to modify their view of the international. The psychological and actual ameliorations from newborn to man or woman only commence at puberty; and infrequently do no longer end for a decade. confronted with those sorts of factors, that isn't any ask your self that many little ones attempt to reject the time-honored jobs and alternatives dealing with them by using performing up or breaking the rules.
2016-10-15 01:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes keep her away. Before she does any more damage.
Being strict is your choice. It is your family and she needs to stop interfering.
In some states she could be charged with contributing to the delinquency of a minor.
2006-07-21 20:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by iggwad ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see what the mystery is, just keep her away from your insane sister. I suspect that she has something to do with the rapist...
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2006-07-21 20:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you r the parent take charge of ur life with ur kids. she is not acting in the best intrest of the kids well being. her pettiness will hurt ur kids.
2006-07-21 20:39:34 · answer #7 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
loosen up a little and why do you care about your sister and giving you girls freedom ..it seems like she is jealous of your life.
TELL YOUR SISTER TO GET A LIFE
2006-07-21 20:11:18 · answer #8 · answered by believerchick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋