i'm 15 and i live w/ only my dad. he is not the type of guy that will talk to me about sex and i don't want to ask my friends b/c i've been putting on this big act like i know all about it. is there anyone willing to give me there sn and answer some questions. i'm rly not a freak or anything i just want to know. I'm a christian and everything and i'm not planning on doing anything it would just feel good to not be in the dark.
2006-07-21 19:00:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
First of all, is your mother in the picture at all, and do you have any type of communication with your mother? If so, and if she is trustworthy, I am sure (although you do not live with her), she would be willing to go with you on this journey. Since you are Christian, you can go to a woman (whom you respect and feel comfortable with) at church and talk to her. Perhaps it is the mother or older sister of a friend in your youth group. You can also ask your youth pastor if he knows any women (perhaps his wife?) that can talk to you about a "private matter". Please seek out someone whom you know and respect---a site like this is not a safe venue for you as you look for answers that are so private and precious. Furthermore, I would reconsider my friends---if they are the people you think you have to lie to in order to (feel like you) belong, then they are probably ones you cannot fully trust and are not looking out for your best interests, like real friends would. Girlfriends who share your beliefs in this area are your safest and wisest bet here. You don't have to abandon your other friends altogether, but you must consider (by the pressure you obviously feel to be accepted) if they will one day lead you down a path you will one day regret.
2006-07-21 19:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie if you are trying to led a christian life (which is very hard this day and time) maybe you would feel comfortable in talking with your pastor or pastors wife or someone in your church family...what does your bible say?
2006-07-22 06:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by mississippi queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try out this site......
http://www.plannedparenthood.org/pp2/portal/
It is informative before and after you become sexually active.
Personally, I hope you wait until you are over 18. I did and I do not regret it.
2006-07-21 19:26:40 · answer #3 · answered by CoCo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im me melckhan yahoo
2006-07-21 19:18:58 · answer #4 · answered by MotherNature 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im me kiecute or email me kiecute@yahoo.com
2006-07-21 19:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by kiecute 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex
this site should help you.
2006-07-21 19:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey im ian,i can talk to ya im no freak or perve,ijust no wut ur goin thru
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2006-07-21 19:35:07 · answer #7 · answered by ian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋