say your husband or wife or whatever gets the urge to get it on with someone else but its not because he or she loves he or she its cause he or she is bored of you sexually and needs to release on someone else. is that worth breaking up or getting a divorce?
2006-07-21 18:18:36 · 8 answers · asked by Matthew Shlmn 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
IT ONLY COUNTS IF YOU GET CAUGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-21 20:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by corvairchick 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, coming from a Army guy that this happened to, I say Yes. My ex-wife did this to me, then I found out it was more than once. If they have to find someone else cause they are bored then its time for them to move on.
2006-07-22 01:47:20 · answer #2 · answered by stampedefocus2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!It's worth a lawyers time of course.It's not why he/she cheated,it's the fact that he/she cheated.I would'nt put up with a cheater because (USUALLY-in most cases)once a cheater,always a cheater.IF he/she thinks their spouse is boring sexually,then he/she needs to talk to their spouse and see what they can do..within their relationship....to ignite and fire up their flames.You DON'T go out and find someone else.I believe in keeping it interesting in the bedroom(when your in a commited/lasting relationship)BUT I would not tolerate that being the reason for adultry/cheating!!!!!!
2006-07-22 01:50:07 · answer #3 · answered by missyandgordon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's worth some counseling, at least.
Let's correct something first: Nobody "needs" to release on someone else, that's a "want."
Most of us fantasize and/or masturbate to fill these voids and protect our marriages and relationships.
2006-07-22 01:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by PI Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not knowing more about your particular situation I would have to say you people need to have some serious talks about monogamous relationships.
Otherwise, just have an open relationship with that understanding.
2006-07-22 01:30:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES IT WORTH BOTH, THE FACT THAT SOMEONE IS MARRIED AND WANT TO GO TO OTHER PEOPLE FOR WHAT
EVER THE REASONS ARE IS CRAZY,HE/SHE WOULD BE
OUT THE DOOR.
2006-07-22 01:25:09 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"If the other is persistent and wants this and one does not, by all means, get counseling if this person is willing to. And if not I would say green light to get out now."
2006-07-22 01:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-22 01:26:58 · answer #8 · answered by kent m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋