I'm married 30 yo about to leave my husband. I met a guy out of town who is 24. We talked on the phone for a week then when I went back to his town we went out. Everything went great except at the end of the night things got hot and heavy, but he didn't want to have sex. We were supposed to go out the next night, but he made up an excuse. Well I had texted him and we did wind up talking on the phone, but he was being an *** and I told him that I wasn't playing any games with him. So I went out with some other friends & we decided to call him & tell him that I couldn't drive and needed a ride and that was true. He picked me up & took me back to the house I was staying. Of course we started making out but he didn't want to have sex due to not having a condom so I gave him a ******** & he said that was the first time a girl ever got him off that way. I haven't heard much from him since & when I have he's been distant & acts like he doesn't want to talk. I'd like to b friends w/him.
2006-07-21 18:14:32 · 12 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, I didn't meet him online! Yes, I have every reason to feel stupid! No, I don't want a relationship with him except as friends! Yes, I was pushy, yes, I was drunk, yes, I was a lot of things! My marriage is over!! I am moving back to his town, which is where I am from too! I would like to have been able to be friends with him and forget that night!
2006-07-21 18:27:14 · update #1
He's got to be gay!
2006-07-21 18:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by adm2576 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all you did not want to have sex because of protection and you gave him a ******** are you serious you can still catch a disease from giving head everyone knows that you don't have to have intercourse to get a STD !!!!!!! Second you are married and even if you are thinking of leaving your husband you can give him the respect to leave and not wonder between the both of them (have your cake and eat it) I don't mean to be harsh but you have to think logically more problems will arise if your not honest with yourself and others be true and you will go far in life and for the other man involved GRASS IS NOT ALWAYS GREENER ON THE OTHER SIDE and he has already proved that to you by acting the way he has when he has not got his own way i think you can do better for yourself!!!! YOU DESERVE BETTER love yourself first and someone will love you better.........
2006-07-21 18:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by kathy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say thats a bit much. Maybe this guy knows that he does not want to get involved. If you are willing to do this while you are married, he probably does not want to get involved and hurt.
2006-07-21 18:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by Michele R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya! go to counseling work on your self resp[ct your self maybe if you Cared About Your Self More So Would Others
2006-07-21 19:21:38 · answer #4 · answered by 66hamerheadPD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're feeling stupid for a good reason.
2006-07-21 18:18:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u havea husband and maintaining boyfriend secretly tooooooo bad
2006-07-21 18:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by srinu710 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to be ethical and not ruin your marriage. You are hurting your family.
2006-07-21 18:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by RunSueRun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got what he wanted. Now he wants you to leave him alone.
2006-07-21 18:19:54 · answer #8 · answered by PI Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question....yes, there is something you can do, and it's to STOP BEING STUPID, then you won't FEEL STUPID.
2006-07-21 19:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by Cherripi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,
You need a vibrator.
Not a friend.
2006-07-21 18:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he thought you had a STD or something ..i mean you were gonna sleep with him on your first date!
2006-07-21 19:18:36 · answer #11 · answered by Thumper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋