My friends husband is deployed along with my husband, the thing is he has been asking my husband details of what's going on with her. so my question is should I spill if I know something or keep it to myself?
2006-07-21 18:01:47 · 8 answers · asked by tina-marie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You probably are better off kepping it to yourself..........It'll save you a whole lot of grief in the end..............Take care............
2006-07-21 18:04:39 · answer #1 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on whether or not you want to get that involved,.
it will hurt him..
i think you should wait..,
let him concentrate on where he is
Since he can not be home to investigate his personal life, he does not
need to be troubled, or totally distracted by uncertainty, and what good can possibly come to his being on alert,,
just let it go,
things have a way of working themselves out,
i would not want to be the bearer of bad news to someone who can not do anything about it at the momemt and only pain and torment, and all the emotions that go with such events,
LET IT BE, AND TEND TO YOUR OWN LIFE,
MAYBE PRAY A LOT FOR A GOOD OUTCOME OR FOR THE SUSPICIONS TO COME TO AN END,
2006-07-22 03:06:37 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should think about the situation long term. If you tell , do you care if you and the person will remain friends are not. And according to what type of religion you are if any at all, Just pray about it.
2006-07-22 01:06:57 · answer #3 · answered by me-me-01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband is busy with more important things than your friend's behavior. your friends husband is too busy to find out about her missbehavior. a still toungue makes a wise head. forget about it untill the right time.
2006-07-22 01:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by kent m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you call yourself a friend , don't do this mistake , speak to your friend and give counseling with a long heart to heart chat, if you still want continue as a friend .
2006-07-22 01:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not your place to tell no matter how much you like the husband . He will find out on his own eventually...
2006-07-22 01:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it to yourself. He sounds like a real jealous ******
2006-07-22 01:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by the_mojo_wire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NAH...I don't think so....absolutely not
2006-07-22 01:06:29 · answer #8 · answered by texasgirl5454312 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋