Okay so me and my b/f have been together 3 years and Im gay...how do I tell him?
2006-07-21 17:43:45 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Other - Entertainment
Don't! Let him catch you with another woman and then let him join in!!
Come on its just the typical man response!!
Sorry!!
2006-07-21 17:45:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you're not bi at all? Totally full blown homosexuality? Hmm I think that you should tell him then as soon as possible instead of really leading him on. I don't really know how he will respond to such a think but I think you should still tell him. Maybe approach him, you know like sit him down and talk to him about your feelings and how your current relationship just isn't right for you.
2006-07-22 00:48:20 · answer #2 · answered by CoNfUsEd? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not to be technical but if ur gay then ur a man liking a man. Im guessing ur a lesbian. Eventually ur gonna have to tell him. But tell him gently so you dont break his heart. Its not easy to do i know ive been there when it came to breaking up with someone for another man. I would prepare myself before i talked to him. I would write down my feelings first then put it in words like something that would tell him its over but in a gentle way. Unless u wanna stay with him then break the news to your girlfirend.
2006-07-22 00:52:37 · answer #3 · answered by jessica p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean "bi" or are you giving up guys all together?
Do you plan on leaving him or just informing him?
If leaving him then there's really nothing he can do. Better to learn sooner than later. I had a gf leave me for a girl. It was tough but hey, I can't compete with that.
If you're just informing him then he should be OK with it.
2006-07-22 00:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the first place how u know u r gay,when u r sure the rest will follow.
2006-07-22 00:49:18 · answer #5 · answered by rogish2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you still have sex with him? if so your bisexual if not and your really gay youll have to tell him hunn. just be honest.
i have a b/f and i am bi curious and i have told him he gets kinda mad but oh well
anyways dont keep lying to him your only hurting him more and more everyday . just tell him. it will be okay do what your heart tells you!
safe sex!
-maria
2006-07-22 00:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get really serious in your relationship with him. maybe go on a long vacation. while on vacation (that he paid for!) have sex with him and call him girl's names the entire time. after he has pleasured you, tell him "yeah, so, I'm not really into the whole penis thing anymore. just thought you should know."
2006-07-22 00:50:16 · answer #7 · answered by giggssoccer83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would head down to the nearest horse farm and throw some peanuts in the air. Did you ever go to a brewery? Man, I did today and Ianm so damn smashed,,,,,,,.............
2006-07-22 00:48:08 · answer #8 · answered by jaredshouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez , keep him up late and watch comedy central . when one of those advertisements for a girls gone wild tape comes on just tell him your one of those girls gone wild . Unless its a problem for your girl friend , I'm sure he'll be delighted .
2006-07-22 01:03:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You tell him quite openly. You have had feelings... you need to explore.... it's not about him being a better man... Good Luck.
2006-07-22 00:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by Nikki 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋