What I mean is that, i am never happy with where I am at...I am going to graduate from college soon...am actually doing great but feel like its nothing...social life is great....have never had problems with anyone and without sounding conceited I have no problems attracting attention from men but for some reason i always feel like my life is going no where. Sometimes I feel so strongly that I think to myself "You may be academically smart and others may think you are beautiful but you really are nothing." I really do tell myself that sometimes and I just can't help it...everyone around me doesn't even know I feel this way and I think they may be shocked if they knew but I just want to know do others feel a bit this way sometimes?
2006-07-21 17:41:58 · 18 answers · asked by Lin 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
i do feel dissatisfied
2006-07-21 17:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by truth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been battling feelings like yours for my whole life.. 45 years.. I think because of my parents not being equipped to raise children sent me mixed messages. The thing that runs through my head is "No matter what I do it's never gonna be good enough" Intellectually I realize what BS this thinking is...but explain that to my insides.. I have lost 200 lbs since 2002 and the trippiest thing is that my insides still have not caught up to my outsides. I still feel like that HUGE girl that doesn't deserve anything. I got highest honors when I got my AA degree in 2003 and not one of my family members showed up for graduation. Incredible isn't it? It's like no matter what I do it's not important. About 15 years ago I made a decision about my life. Whenever I do something for self improvement I am doing it for ME..not to try to get approval from my family which will never happen anyways.
Needless to say I have had to distance myself a bit from them which they will never understand..but then again I'm taking care of me..and my life is none of their business because they'll find something to dissapprove of anyways. So to make a short story long basically my programming for life was messed up since I was a toddler. period. I'm not sure that I'll ever be able to make it reprogram but at least I can recognize it when it's happening and try to tell my brain to shut the heck up.. I don't know if this makes sense to you..but this is what came to my mind when I read the question... My brain is like a really bad neighborhood.. I shouldn't go in there alone LOL
2006-07-21 17:52:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ms_E_Bunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah everyone feels that way sometimes....alot of people just never admit it. You are prob more anxious then anything to get out there and actually start your life. You have prob been in college for a long time and actually havent didnt anything yet. Once you graduate that feeling will go away fast and the independence that you feel will be great just be patient you will be something. try to relax while you still can because when you get out alot of work comes to follow good luck
2006-07-21 17:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by Glittergirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I know what you mean. It's hard being happy with who we are.But one thing you must understand is that everybody is something. Always remember that there are people who love you sooo much. And you've got one life to live to try to live it at the fullest. Don't have any regrets. Be happy with what you've got.And find love...love can change soo much. And just be open minded with an open heart.love all you can. You'll see you'll be satisfied...Im sure you'll accomplish a lot :)
2006-07-21 17:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! and if you feel that way it just means you are still alive. If one is dissatisfied then he wants to change something and it's called "life". If you dont want to changed anything than you are probably already on the cemetery (as a permanent resident).
2006-07-21 17:50:31 · answer #5 · answered by VP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are doing wonderful with you life and you should be very proud of yourself. You need to raise that self esteem. But I know they way you feel and it will pass. Give yourself some credit and feel good.
2006-07-21 17:47:54 · answer #6 · answered by pretty_comanche_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing something artistic, like try a new dance class, or pottery, photography, music or writing. It is very fullfilling and you may find that you have many talents. Life is incomplete without art.
2006-07-21 17:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yaah!!
u r ryt
even i also feel sometimes the same
i m also never satisfied by myself
aree yaar
tension nahin lene kaa hotaa hai hotaa hai
aisaa hi hotaa hai
if u get satisfied by something then u r never goin to repeat the same thing
so it is better that u r not satisfied.
2006-07-21 17:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by ankita s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Completely Understand!!!
Be Blessed!!!
2006-07-23 06:30:14 · answer #9 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bcuz of hollywood- we're convinced that there are so many more fabulous things going on out there when in reality, if you're healthy, have good friends and family, and all of your necessities you're living a life about as good as it gets
2006-07-21 17:47:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to. but find the purpose in your life and you would learned to be at least contented with everything. I love myself, eventhough i have lots of imperfections.
2006-07-21 17:49:33 · answer #11 · answered by berty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋