It has been my 100% expieriance that ultimatley ALL men are bisexual. I believe that we are all very insecure beings. We don't know where we came from, where we are going ,or how we got here. This all creates an innate insecurity in us all. More or less .... "we are born alone and we will die alone". I have come to believe that this causes all mankind to gravitate towards symbols SAFTEY, STRENGTH, PROTECTION AND SECURITY.These things are represented in masculinity and I have seen that all ALL attracted to it. perhaps not exclusively but nontheless .... attracted to it .... any thoughts?
2006-07-21 17:13:52 · 19 answers · asked by jethot00 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
if they have had sex or not with another guy is not a point. the point is if they WANT to
2006-07-21 17:18:11 · update #1
Totally disagree, I am a man and am not insecure. Definitely not insecure about being alone, I like being alone. Unfortunately I rarely am alone. I have never been attracted to another man. I am attracted to a strong woman. But not one that is strong in a macho or masculine way. I have also never had doubts about my sexuality, I think women are the most beautiful things on earth.
Sex with another man does not tempt me or most men.
Where did you come up with your 100% experiance and are you even a man ? That's kind of like men saying all women like other women. That wouldn't be a true statement even though there are alot of bi-sexual males and females.
I'm guessing your not that educated and just speaking what you think.
Sorry but you sound a little ignorant and maybe confused about your own sexuality.
2006-07-21 17:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by The Hit Man 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
GOD I wish this were true! But its not. I think most (MOST) men DO think about it and it paralyzes alot of them with fear and makes them homophobic.
What I mean by this is simple: Most everyone at some stage in their life will go thru a simple single sex "crush." NOT LOVE, NO, NOT LOVE. But a devout desire to be like someone else of the same sex. Say someone like a SPORTS HERO OR A RAP STAR. These guys will be Masculine, have lots of money, have other men following them (a posse) doing whatever is asked with lots of females too. They will be successful in everything they touch and seem to be; well, magical. It is at this stage the "crush" develops. It might seem like love, but its actually a desire to "be like or have that persons life or lifestyle" and not actual love. Who WOULDN'T want to be Ben Affleck (I don't mean HIM in particular, but just LIVE HIS LIFE? the money, fame & girls?) or Jennifer Lopez (okay, sure, lose the azz) with the clothes, the fame and glory, not to mention the voice? So while many people are confused over their feelings, that's because of societies fear of Homosexuality which is incredibly hostile. However, ITS NOT HOMOSEXUALITY, its just puppy love or a crush over the lifestyle, NOT THE PERSONS SEXUALITY!
2006-07-21 17:29:48 · answer #2 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Actually I always thought this but there is no way to prove it so I guess we are both ___ out.
My theory has more to do with all humans both man and woman being of the female sex and later on genetic switches turn some humans into male.
2006-07-21 17:19:07 · answer #3 · answered by kitt 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No that is not true because although all men may have a stray thought, thinking about something is not the same as doing it. For example, thinking of flying a plane or committing a murder does not make you a pilot or a murderer, respectively.
2006-07-21 17:15:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not True. My man is in no way anything that you have described. He is very secure, happy, and the most wonderful man I have ever met! He has 5 bro. who are alot like him. His dad is the greatest! They are all gret, & christian. They know God created them out of live for a reason, they know they have a purpose here, & they know when they die they will be in heaven with our Creator, God. They believe the same I do. I know quite a few men who are nothing as you described.
2006-07-21 17:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by BlueSpider 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Both men and women have the potential to engage in homosexual acts. But that does not mean they are homosexual.
Many people when sober would be horrified at the thought but inebriated enough and if the opportunity presented itself they might. A soft, warm, wet hole is a soft, warm, wet hole.
2006-07-21 17:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to burst your bubble. None of what you said has anything to do with bisexual behavior. You obviously gravitate to certain individuals that are willing to partake in certain activities. I am NOT. Therefore, your argument of ALL does not hold water.
2006-07-21 17:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think humans are bisexual. If you look at history, being bisexual was not a sin and was actually normal until about the early 1800's when the church decided they had to emphasize procreation and made bisexualism a sin.
2006-07-21 18:21:40 · answer #8 · answered by chill'n 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I believe ALL men and/or woman have bisexual tendencies. That being said, most of us rarely act on our attractions and to go one step further, many of us try to suppress them because of the way society treats homosexuality.
Just an opinion... no fact behind this.... no studies....just opinion.
2006-07-21 17:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
We came from God creating us, thats how we got here, and some of us will be going with him forever.
Anyway, men I believe like anything that walks.
2006-07-21 17:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by Ruby 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋