My bf who is working in another country is in a very bad situation now. It seems to be the reasons why he has been silent although I tried to contact him. What should i do now:
- move on
- ask my friend living near him to come to his place and check it out for me.
2006-07-21 16:48:45 · 18 answers · asked by bluesky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
done move on and dont get your friend to spy on him it looks bad. if your really worried, just contact the nearest police station/hospital around him and see if they can give you any answers, if that does not work, try contacting him again, if you can leave a worried message if he doesnt call its up to you from that point, go with what your heart tells you.
2006-07-21 16:53:18 · answer #1 · answered by sirun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't make the assumptions you are making. I can't imagine him not being able to contact you by phone, email or mail. It sounds to me like he may have moved on and not told you. Would have been wise to discuss this prior to his leaving. Why is it you can communicate with a friend living near him and not him directly? Something is way too fishy here.
2006-07-21 23:52:47 · answer #2 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really care for this person, ask the friend to help. Maybe they just lost temp. communication, don't just give up on him.
Maybe he needs your comfort and support, but just can't reach you either. Good luck, and hang in there a while.
2006-07-21 23:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by Rick R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're worried first find out what the problem is, check to see if he's OK and then make your decision from there.
2006-07-21 23:54:19 · answer #4 · answered by Honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep trying to contact him, if only to leave a message saying you are there for him. If you confirm his silence is because he's cheating on you, dump him quick!
2006-07-21 23:56:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do know that you supplied no information with which a person could help you make an educated answer?
2006-07-21 23:51:51 · answer #6 · answered by banker lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see him yourself if you can...if not then yeah girl ask your friend to go and check on him.Make sure hes ok.And then if he is ok..... then I would say move on if hes not retuning your calls or emails.That usually means one thing.
2006-07-21 23:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both, if it is meant to be it will happen for you. I hope your bf is okay. Also try being direct and just talking to him about everything
2006-07-21 23:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by Babee cakez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you care for him, ask your friend to check his place out....
2006-07-21 23:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by cavewomen24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should wait until you talk to him and find out what is going on. I think I'd prolly have the friend go and find out what's going on.
2006-07-21 23:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋