WHY!!!
2006-07-21 16:38:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Because they're human, and humans don't always do what is right. Sad, isn't it?
2006-07-21 16:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by DAC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is it always "wrong"? Is this a statement from God? You?
American society?
I'm not trying to be obnoxious, but you say it like it should be obvious to all
people at all times - and it isn't.
Affairs tend to be situational - people find themselves in them before they
really understand what the implications of what they are doing.
For instance, is flirting while you are married wrong?
Is looking at other people while you are married wrong?
I think some people have more will power than others. Some people
have affairs because they don't care about what other people will think.
It usually comes down to this: People interact with each other and
after a period of time, some of these interactions become more intense
and perhaps sexual.
Then one or both people has to say "Whoa ... this is becoming an afair.
I need to stop." Some people can and do. Some don't care.
2006-07-21 23:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nowadays people always think that whatever they do is right. If they always feel this way, they think that by having an affair they are not wrong. They don't bother how it hurt their spouse and never feel it until they are being hurt. Once their spouse found out they have been cheated, they will lost their trust in the relationship. That means both of them will break or divorced and the only thing is when will they do so
2006-07-22 01:18:14 · answer #3 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As husband and wife, you are commited to a relationship approved and recognised by the authority. Thus, in this case having an affair is definitely wrong. Should you like to have affair then you should not get married. Nobody will object your affairs so long you are a single.
2006-07-22 10:25:36 · answer #4 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They obviously weren't ready for the commitment went they got into the marriage. They can't seem to commit to one person and are still trying to have fun and be young. Maybe it's even the fact that he/she loves the attention they are getting and don't want to give it up. Cheating is always a sign of insecurity. If this question is in relevance to you and a significant other, I suggest you file for a divorce. No bad relationship is worth staying in, especially when they're being unfaithful. I can't imagine how hard it would be to leave the one you recited your vows to, but it's better to live without someone like that. They obviously don't care about your feelings, and it's time to let go. Move on, there are plenty of other people out there. Don't give up and look at things pessimistically. There's a brighter side to everything, you just have to open your heart and eyes to them.
2006-07-21 23:52:24 · answer #5 · answered by youdontknowme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people cheat because they are in love with the thrill of it. Kind of like how people like to ride roller coasters. I don't agree with it, and have been a victim of a cheater in the past.
Remember when you were a kid, and you always got a kick out of doing something you didn't get caught for? That's your answer for most of those cheaters out there. The rest, some might have an addiction to sex or a strange sexual need they can't or won't share with their spouse or partner.
2006-07-21 23:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mary J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people are self-centered today. They do what makes them feel good, no matter who it hurts. If you love your wife/husband, you don't cheat because you know that when they find out they will be very hurt...and that they will never trust you again. i.e. your marriage is probably over. Trust is an essential ingredient in a good marriage.
2006-07-21 23:53:46 · answer #7 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is never right to do your spouce like this it breaks the trust that was there before and when one does the other like this it as well runs the marrage as well how you felt about them and in time the cheater will end up the loser . when you lose your.morals. no matter male or female. you in time think evrything is ok. well that is when it hits .the one who cheated there life is nevr complete with there spouce no more this cheating is always wrong and no way to justfy this act. . my opion?
2006-07-22 03:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is from personal experience i cheated because i got tried of being accused of it and was totally faithful. the first time i did cheat my wife suggest that the woman and i would enjoy having sex with each other and she was refusing to have sex with me. I had been horny for days before i did give in and cheated.
2006-07-21 23:45:58 · answer #9 · answered by bigdaddyleon2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Human weakness
2006-07-22 05:53:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are bored with their current situation and are too lazy to try to fix it, so they go out and find some "attraction" to make them feel better........Temporary fixes are no good, and usually cheaters get hurt in the end, which they deserve..........
2006-07-21 23:42:00 · answer #11 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋