2006-07-21 16:27:52 · 11 answers · asked by emotional misstres 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What you need to do is end the affair and talk to your husband. If you and your husband are truly over, then end the marriage before starting another relationship. It's really not fair to your husband to go behind his back. Just think how you would feel if he were doing the same thing to you.
I'm not saying you aren't justified in your unhappy feelings, I've been there. But you'll only make it worse to move forward with the affair.
2006-07-21 16:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by acholtz@verizon.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
emotional affairs are just a game a man plays with you. It's not real, it's easy for a man to listen and talk to you about how hard it is to be with someone else. but as soon as the other person is out of the picture and it's him that's brothering you , you'll have to have another affair. Unless you want to go from one affair to the next it best to spend your time and emotions on the one you have the relationship with.
2006-07-21 23:40:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are times when you can talk to your husband and you know that he totally understands what you are saying. there are times when you feel like you are speaking another language. having an emotional affair is sometimes more dangerous than a physical affair. anyone can give you the physicality that you crave. but only someone who truly understands you can give you the one on one attention and perspective that you crave. it takes a lot for a person to become so invested in a relationship that it is emotionallly tied. your heart is something that is involved in emotiona nd should not be split in two. so talk to your husband. no matter how difficult. try to really delve inot what is really wrong and fix it before it's too late.
2006-07-21 23:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have thought about telling him before the affair. However, yes you need to be a woman and come out with the truth.
2006-07-21 23:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by angelikness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him WHY you are not Happy? There is a need that is not being met by your partner and obviously he may also have a need you are not meeting. You cannot just tell someone "I am not happy" without a reason why. If you are lonely, confused, misunderstood, fed up, angry he's obligated to listen to those things and if he won't get counseling for yourself and he agrees for him too. But try to find out what needs are being unmet in your relationship and discover new ways to fill those needs with each other.
2006-07-21 23:37:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means. That way he and you can get on healing a broken marriage, or just get on with life without each other.
2006-07-22 00:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by AB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why be his emotional mistress when you can have a normal relationship with someone else full time?
2006-07-21 23:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by Dreamy J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we'll i think you should tell him how you really feel and clear your mind of all thoughts you are having thats holding you down
2006-07-22 00:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by mrquietstorm2u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By all means let him know!
2006-07-21 23:32:33 · answer #9 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not enough info.......plz elaborate..
2006-07-21 23:32:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋