ok so what does it mean when ur husband tells you he is not happy ..he feels he is m issing something .. am i to blame? i confronted him and told him i felt like he wasnt happy with me and i told him i can understand and if he wanted a divorce as long as it made him happy i would give it to him ? is his unhappiness my falt .. i would really appreciate ur insight on this situation..keep in mind ive been a stay at home mom and do wat i can
2006-07-21 16:25:10 · 6 answers · asked by heartbrokenthensum 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he just turned 29 and no i havent cheated or done anything but he has ?
2006-07-21 16:51:36 · update #1
WELL DONT KNOW IF UVE DONE N E THING
2006-07-21 16:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by ♫♪♥PUSSaY FART♫♪♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You leave out some important information. What does he say he's unhappy about? You? Life in general? What's he say he's missing? Someone else? Fantasies? Trophy girlfriends? If you're a stay at home mom, maybe he feels like you are not pulling your own weight, even though that's probably untrue. How are the finances at home? Does he like his carreer? The grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Don't give up on him or your marriage. Your kid(s) need both of you. Many people look around, and see the other guy with the newer car, the bigger house, the wife with the bigger rack/tighter buns, the kid with the better grades, and think they're missing out. It's just so much crapola. Two people marry, have a kid or two,and build a life together. Depending on a million different factors, that life may be perfect, but probably not quite so perfect. Life happens. inside if life, s... happens, but so do great things too. If he's unhappy, find out what he needs to make him happy. Does he hate where you're living? If you can, move! If you cant, remodel, and repaint. try something completely new for decor. Does he need more from you? the rack, or the buns? Get thee to a gym, or try slimfast. Do what it takes. Marriage is too sacred to just toss aside. It takes work, and a lot of it every day. But you know what? When you're 65 and retired, and all the crapola is behind you, you'll be laughing your behind off at your folly of even thinking of breaking up. Your adult kids will thank you for providing the proper model of a marital union for them to emulate. And they'll be happier too. Take the long view. things might not be working so good right now. But with a little work, and if you need to go see a counselor, you two can get passed this, and have a wonderful future together. God Bless
2006-07-22 00:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that he is probably messing around on you and making you feel at fault. Truth is...it's not your fault. If he was concerned about the lull in the relationship, he'd ask you to go to counceling or do something to work things out. If he screws up and gets a divorce because he's cheating on you, he'll find out rather quick that grass isn't any greener! good luck.
2006-07-21 23:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by Fort Worth, TX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone goes through these times. Do not Give Up SO Easily!
Listen to his concerns. Ask for solutions. Let him know you want to find out if you can work it out. Express your concerns in the relationship.
Pray together, openly, verbally, in an embrace with each other. Laugh together. God will renew your relationship.
2006-07-21 23:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by Lives7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is the jerk. He has someone else. He wants out. Give him the divorce and get half his assets, maintenance for yourself and the kids. Find another man and live happily ever after.
2006-07-22 05:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he 40? mid life....
2006-07-21 23:28:41 · answer #6 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋