I need a girls response only?

Question

what if a guy had a friend and he's known her for three years. And he talked with her everyday at school, talking to her about everthing, and the girl thinks that the guy likes her, and that at any moment the guy will ask her out. But they keep on talking everyday and the months and weeks go by and he never asks her out. And the reason he doesn't is because he likes talking to her, because it helps, and that if he asks her out, they will eventually break up and he would never be able to talk to her. The girl doesn't know the real reason the guy talks to her. After a half year in school, and after the guy has been talking to her a lot lately, she thinks that he has to ask her out soon. But he doesn't and the girl gives up or thinks that the guy is too scared to ask her out. And they stop talking. But after a while they guy can't take it anymore and emails her and explains everything over summer break, but the girl never replies.

If You were a girl, what would you do in her situation

Answer 1

Talk to him and tell him my thoughts on the matter. Get it out in the open! Tell him you love him!!!!

Answer 2

Well, if I were the girl my response would depend on how I felt about the guy. If I liked him I would respond and tell him I liked him also but the lack of response from her does not mean she does not like you. You never know what could have happened maybe she has not checked her email or maybe she does like you but feels the same way you did i.e. she is afraid you guys could risk losing your friendship if you pursue a relationship. I suggest giving her two weeks to respond; if she does not respond email her again but two times is always my limit. If she still does not respond after the second time leave it alone and do not contact her again. If it is meant to be she will come around if not you know she does not feel the same and you can move on. From what you have written I can tell you care very much for her; I hope things work out in your favor.

Answer 3

Being a girl, I would say that you can never have too many friends. Just because a guy doesn't ask you out doesn't mean he doesn't care. And I have personal experience in the department of dating your friends. Sometimes it's better to keep your friend then to find out that you've lost a love, and a friend. Honesty is always the best policy. Be open and understanding. But always keep the lines of communication open. Good luck with whatever you decide. If it was me, I would probably talk to him in person. Tell him what I was thinking and feeling. That I had been hoping he would ask me out, then got discouraged when he didn't. Who knows, maybe he was thinking the same thing all along...

Answer 4

I think you two need to sit down and get everything all out in the open, trying to guess what someone is thinking is to complicated, she more than likely thinks that you don't find her attractive or something like that, but from what i can see, why really love her friendship and don't wont to spoil that in case you ask her out and things get serious between the two of you and it doesn't work out, then in the end you have lost a friend, keep emailing calling everything you can do and tell her straight, if she cant understand that then at least you did everything possible you could do to explain the situation, good luck honey

Answer 5

i personally have been in that situation....i tried to stay away from the turning friends into a relationship because i didnt want to hurt what we had.....yet when you really look at it, you should be very good friends with the person you are in love with because then you can honestly say you know that person. The idea of it scares people....maybe people dont think of their friend in that way but there's nothing wrong with taking things to the next level. and as long as communication is open and both people are honest....good friends who becom lovers stay together along time and usually end up married.......i can honestly say i am with a guy who was a good friend of mine. i fought the idea of a relatiohship for a good 6 months after he expressed his true feelings. i even kept telling myself i could never ever date him. but things just fell into place and we didnt have to even speak on whether we were together or not, we just felt it and accepted it...then titles came. That's the true beauty of a real lover and friend in one.

Answer 6

I would stop playing childish games and be direct. You are not going to get anything clarified by just "thinking" he likes you. Ask him. If he does, he does. If he doesn't, he doesn't. I went through that **** and wasted an entire summer on some dumbass guy. We were best friends and he said he liked me, and gave me that line about losing a friendship. What happened? Well, he met some chick he worked with and never called me again.

Answer 7

If i were looking to go out with him and that was all he wanted was this platonic relationship, then I'd probably tell him sorry and move on.

But if I was ok with it being platonic and enjoying the friendship, then I'd probably continue with it. Sometimes its nice to get the opposite sex's take on things and situations. Makes for great pranks, too!

Answer 8

"If You were a girl, what would you do in her situation"

It says girls response only, but here it says "if you were a girl" and if only girls are to respond, then of course she's a girl, no if about it, so I guess you mean it's OK for a guy to answer and say what he would do if he was really a girl, and if I was really a girl, in that situation, I would email him back and try to have sex with him as soon as possible.

I hope this helps.

Answer 9

If she liked talking to him, why stop?
Girls always like to hear a guys point of view on things.

Answer 10

you shut up go to study and washed your dirty painties helped mom at home try to be a decent person and dont thinik about immature people with you are enough.