My x husband is keeping me away from my son because he is just a jerk. But when i do talk to him about my son he is saying that my son is misbehaving and telling him and his family that he is going to kill them and choke them. He is only 4 what am i suppose to do. they are to stupid to realize keeping him away from me is hurting him!!
2006-07-21 16:08:38 · 14 answers · asked by adlougy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am sorry you miss your son and love him dearly. I would call the nearest shelter for abused women. I would ask a volunteer about the names of a good lawyer. If you have already done that, I would call the mediation society for your state. Then I would get the names of mediators. I would call a couple of them, and tell them you are going through emotional abuse. Ask for names of lawyers from the mediators or anyone who is in court with them, like police officers in your community. Good luck. I would report your husband to authorities if you could
2006-07-21 16:13:36 · answer #1 · answered by dianne b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For minor children, the law has prescibed that custody is usually handed down to the mother. Unless the mother is not qualified or has a mental deficiency or ailment then the burden goes to your husband. If both parents are not qualified to handle their common child, normally the responsibility is assumed by the willing next of kin before the state takes the child away. What you need to do is gather enough evidence against your ex-husband and prepare for legal battle. Social services could also help you should you try to seek their advice regarding this matter. Do act fast before your son is mentally affected by your ex's behavior.
2006-07-21 16:28:03 · answer #2 · answered by maville 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have visitation? If so, he can't keep you away from your son. If you are concerned enough, call DCFS and tell them the situation. If your son is supposedly saying that kind of stuff, DCFS can get an emergency court order for an evaluation to see if he really is and if his father and his family is doing something to cause it. Also, get to court to make sure you have COURT ORDERED visitation. And ask for LOTS of it. If you have to, use this situation as an example of why you should have as much time as possible with your son.
2006-07-21 16:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by sweets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why arent you taking this to court, if you are so concerned for your sons well being?? I mean, come on, family court is all for the children, and Im sure that at 4, you wouldnt have any trouble proving anything.
2006-07-21 16:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot more going on than what you are telling. Seems like you do not have custody which is a red flag! The whole bunch of you sound screwed up. But, perhaps something miraculous will happen if you go to therapy!
2006-07-21 16:18:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is there a custody order in place? it may come to the point your son may need counseling....i know it sounds like a bad thing but its not. Sounds like he needs a better male figure to look up to, someone positive. He Wants attention, trust me...you just have to figure out from who he wants it from and how he can get it before it gets out of hand
2006-07-21 16:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by missdarkstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to court get custody if you can visitation for sure. Get him into counseling if at all possible. He needs help expressing himself and his feelings or your going to have major problems in the future. You dont want to have to visit him in juvie or somwhere worse.
2006-07-21 16:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by lil sis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
notify child abuse first.find a good lawyer and take your husband to court. get exclusive custody of your son. then change your location and move far away from him.
2006-07-21 16:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One word: Lawsuit
2006-07-21 16:21:45 · answer #9 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SEe a lawyer
2006-07-21 23:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋