2006-07-21 16:04:14 · 8 answers · asked by questioneer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well you just have to open your mouth and said repeat after me HHHHHHHHHHHIiiiiiiiiii
2006-07-21 16:08:25 · answer #1 · answered by dancingwiththestars 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You learn by doing. Look for an opportunity and step up and introduce yourself. You may be rejected, you may not. Don't try to be wise or funny. Just tell her that you have admired her from a distance and would like to know her better. Even if she choose not to accept this, you will not have been disrespectful or a jerk and I can guarantee she will at least admire your courage.
If she doesn't accept the invitation, just smile politely and move on. When you see her after that don't try to avoid eye contact or hold your head down, just smile nicely and keep moving.
This is the first step in beginning to overcome your shyness, developing poise and acquiring class. Its there for you...just don't be afraid. Throughout your life you will be loved by some and rejected by others. Regardless...treat others with respect, have pride in yourself and walk with your head high. This may be hard to understand but don't let others dictate your character. Be determine to be your own man and persevere to obtain that goal.
The key is to believe in yourself. Try hard in school to obtain all the knowledge you can get. Give yourself a chance to make it in life. Let girls be secondary, rather than your main priority.
Strive to follow this formula and you'll find that more than your share of girls will always be around.
2006-07-21 16:31:58 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way your going to find something out is by saying something so why not. The worse she can say is no, but the thought of public humiliation is high when you are shy, but chances are if she has a true heart then she will at least say "Hi."
2006-07-21 16:08:18 · answer #3 · answered by mommabears3cubs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start subtle, like saying hi when she goes past. Does she know you? if not you should try and introduce yourself. I find the longer you think about what you are going to say the more confident you are when it comes to the crunch. Get more and more friendly with her until she knows you name and some things about you, almost at the friend stage. That should give you enough time to think about what to say. Go for it man! Hope you find this helpful. Good luck!
2006-07-21 16:11:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women want a man with confidence. If you don't have a spine then you need to get one. Otherwise don't bother. I've talked to women about this and they all say, "a man with confidence makes them wet!" So stop being a punk and go out there show some nuts man.
2006-07-21 16:08:26 · answer #5 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make the first move before anybody does. u cant expect her to wait for u. mayb she does have feelings for ya, jez waiting for u to say sumthin to her. be brave, be the MAN. dun make her wait like a guy is doing to me at the moment. (sigh) when will he ever be the MAN?
2006-07-21 16:11:52 · answer #6 · answered by calixte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont talk to her ...there is alot to lose ...but take chances you never know how good somthing can turn out...there is nothing to lose !..plus this may be a 1 girl out of th rest of your life...but ya TAKE CHANCES..there is nothing to be afraid of
2006-07-21 16:09:11 · answer #7 · answered by amanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it and talk, my son was shy to but all she can do is say no
2006-07-21 16:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by boxer lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋