well, there is this guy. hes a senoir. and all his friends are giving me **** becasue were friends. we have made out a few times and thought about doing more. we text like evry day and see eachother like everyother day. he asked me to do it with him but i dont know if i should becasue he might just be using me. what should i do?
2006-07-21 16:01:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
make him beg for a very long time and then ask him if he loves you in front of his friends
2006-07-21 16:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The fact that you even have to ask this question proves you should not. Never have sex with someone if your not sure or don't want to. He is violating your rights as a human being for even asking you. If it was meant to be it will take place in the natural course of events. His friends might be pressuring him too, so just be honest with him and tell him you are not ready. Believe me he will respect you and himself for it in the long run.
2006-07-21 23:11:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jill P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until you get married so that you don't run the risk of the groom walking around in the reception area after the marriage and overhearing a bunch of guys comparing stories about having had sex with you and what it was like.
2006-07-21 23:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by Martin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He totally skipped the whole "will u be my girlfriend?" line and went straight for sex. Please consider what may be going on. Consider this: if u gave it up to him would he still txt or see u for any amount of time after the deed is done? Tell him no and see if he gets upset or starts saying the reason he wants to have sex is bc (some line of BS). Please DO NOT fall for it. It will create problems. Do what's best for you and move on with ur life he'll graduate real soon & the issues will solve themselves. Keep ur head up.
2006-07-21 23:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by SexiMami 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he liked u he would wait until ur ready to take that risk,it might lead to something ur not ready 4 and cant handle, trust me,.....sh** happends,u might think ur protected but ....u can get pregnant, stds and ur just in high school.... besides why have sex with a guy who ur not sure of, find a guy who really loves u and who just doesnt want what's between ur legs.dont u think u deserve better?
2006-07-21 23:17:33 · answer #5 · answered by slims 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think about what your doing. Follow your heart don't make the same mistake I did and ended up pregnant
2006-07-21 23:08:36 · answer #6 · answered by dontknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you doubt this guy, you have your answer: DON"T DO IT!!!! Trust your gut instict, it's always right.
2006-07-21 23:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋