last year i broke up with my bf because he was boring and never talked to me or even said hi to me at lunch!was it the right reason to break up with him because i still kind of love him, i dont know what to do!
2006-07-21 15:59:59 · 16 answers · asked by iJess 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If you feel that this boy is not giving you the correct respect than I think that you were completely right in your decision. Even though you may love him he can't be right for you if he doesn't show you respect. But in the end you must understand it's all YOUR decision,and good luck!
2006-07-21 16:09:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kacey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how old you are, but if the only time that you are able to talk is during lunch - you don't need to have a boyfriend anyway. You did the right thing because right now all you need to be focusing on is learning about yourself and who you really are and hanging out with your friends and family. You need to get to know yourself long before you get involved with any man. Stay single until your ready to find someone to seriously share you life with. This could be a while, but it is truly worth it. I was younger once before, I know what it's like to have feeling towards boys and think that it is love. But at your age, it really isn't love. It is a mix of hormones and lust (I learned this in lots of classes - I have a Bachelors degree in Early Childhood). It wasn't that long ago that I was a teenager also, I'm only 22. I know that boys can get in the way of friendships, good grades, following YOUR true dreams, and can even get you pregnant if you go to far. The reason I am telling you this is because all of these things happened to me. Please take my advice and don't worry about the boys - worry about your self.
Good luck, and have a great night!
P.S. To the girl that said you are childish and don't love him if you said he was boring - that is definilty not true. I love my husband with all my heart - but boy can he be boring! That doesn't have much to do with love. Trust me.
2006-07-21 16:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by twisteddistance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. No girl wants a boring boyfriend. Trust me, I know about this. I lived it. My boyfriend did nothing with me. There are plenty more guys out there. Start looking for them.
2006-07-21 16:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by katiechick15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats a wrong decision!!
he might be boring because of some work pressure,it doesn't mean he don't love you!!
if u want someone to entertain u with jokes than u r not in love than u better hire a person who can narrate stoies and jokes to u.
2006-07-21 19:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by terri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl!!!!!!!!!! There are alot of men/boys out there find another one. **** you young!!!! Love is when no matter how boring they are you don't care you love em reguardless of there flaws you don't love him you just got feelings for him I bet while you sitting up thinking about him he isn't thinking about you!!! Sorry!! move on!
2006-07-21 16:13:25 · answer #5 · answered by kiki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you made the right decision because women want and need attention. You made the right decision because what if you two would have had sex, he would have denied you and ignored you.
2006-07-21 16:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you broke up for the right reason he was being childish if he didn't want to be bothered then yall shouldn't have gone out together
2006-07-21 16:05:01 · answer #7 · answered by Andrea M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how could u love him if u never talk to him. that is messed up. u need to let him go gurl and find a notha man . PEACE>good luck!
2006-07-21 16:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by summer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow sounds like me but i also did it because she was depressing and always made me unhappy when i was around her by the way im a guy
2006-07-22 16:11:12 · answer #9 · answered by masterstoaf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How childish.You don't love him otherwise you wouldn't have said he is boring.
2006-07-21 16:02:38 · answer #10 · answered by I ♥ U 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋