I met a really great guy. But I also recently found out that I am pregnant. I am 18 years old and I have my first child on the way. I just recently lost my virginity to my best friend. Who happens to have a girlfriend of his own. How do i tell this new guy I'm pregnant. Oh boy what a time to lose something good. Just when I really need it.
2006-07-21 15:50:18 · 11 answers · asked by Deborah C 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
just tell him because soon or later he will find out when u get to show if u are not already show and he knows it is not his
2006-07-21 15:53:16 · answer #1 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to set down and have the conversation. don't beat around the bush about it. let him decide what is the best way for him to handle this. you need to decide what you expect from him ahead of time though... he's going to ask! tell him that you don't want to lose the friendship that you value. are you willing to put unknown father on the birth certificate? what is this friendship worth to you? i would like to say that to do it all over again, i would have put unknown father on my first child's b/c. his dad didn't want me to continue on with the pregnancy... and after the child was born i had one legal battel after another FOR YEARS. i was a VERY poor single mother (17) and the babies father was 20. i could have lost my child. the court doesn't automatically give the child to the mother any more! the child's dad slipped up and got involved in drugs, and was caught- that's the ONLY reason that he didn't take my baby. i didn't have the money to hire an attorney and fight for my own child, but i didn't need to after the drug stuff happened! you are about to find that love is so much more than ever imagined. congrats... even though i know this is a hard time!
oh, and about the new guy...you just need to be up front with him. if he can't handle this he isn't worth the stress. you need to keep your stress under control. I WISH YOU THE BEST!
2006-07-21 23:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by JayneDoe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit him down and explain the situation to him. If he's really understanding and cares about you he'll stay with you. Yea he's gonna get angry but you'll just have to give him time. I know this first hand because I was pregnant when I started a relationship with my then boyfriend I told him about it before we got serious and he was fine with it. He even offered to help me raise the baby. Honesty is the best policy in this situation it will turn out for the best. Good Luck with your baby and if you have anymore questions email me at cutet88@yahoo.com
2006-07-22 02:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by cutet88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow . sounds like drama but if I were u, I would let him know right away. just be like" hey_____ I really like u and would really love to be with you or be your friend but before we go any further with our relationship, I want to tell you something. I just recently found out that I'm pregnant " then continue from there. Hope this helps good luck.
2006-07-22 01:11:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just simply tell him because is important for you to be honest to the guy so he knows what he goes into.But what can also happen that you just meet your guy and he may end the relationship with you plus if he is as old as you are.Most of the guyes arn't ready to start relationship with a girl who is pregnant to someone else so don't be so disappointed then
2006-07-21 22:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by m41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents first, so they can give you advice and support. Then tell the father of your baby. Be calm and confident. You may lose your new guy in the process. Good luck.
2006-07-21 22:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by nobodyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell now..let him get over the anger..then he will eventually accept it and help you...hes your best friend for a reason..best friends are usually your true love. I know mine was..but he was killed.
as for the new guy..be honest also..tell him..if he wants to be with you for you..then all will be well.
2006-07-21 22:57:42 · answer #7 · answered by mommy2savannah51405 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i am gonna tell u this out straight all u have to do is tell him!! thats all!! my mom was preg at 18 and she married the guy that got her preg but now they are divorced but it doesn't mean u have to marry the guy!! they wanted to get married but they still talk and he is kinda like a dad to me cause when i was younger i listened to him more than my mom!!!well hope u have fun being a mommy!!
2006-07-21 22:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by babynam2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you have some issues on your hands; i will pray for you.
2006-07-21 22:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by hotgurl 04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with him it's will just be harder later on
2006-07-21 22:53:40 · answer #10 · answered by Vanissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋