my 13 year old best friend is pregnant?

Question

PLEASE HELP!!!!!!

ok a few things,
1) she told her parents last night
2) shes not a whore she only had sex once
3) she doesnt believe in abortion we both think its murder
4)her bf did wear a condom it split

Answer 1

Too late for that now...... get her to talk to her parents.

Answer 2

Ok, she's pregnant. First things first. If she is truly pregnant then it doesn't matter that "#1. She told her parents last night, #2. she's not a whore. #3. Her boyfriends condom broke or that...#4 she doesn't believe in abortion.
What kind of help are you wanting. She screwed a teenager (teenage guys keep condoms in their wallet until they use them. no wonder it had a hole in it), got pregnant, told her parents, is not a whore and is against abortion. Please tell me what kind of help you are wanting. First of all it has nothing to do with you. Secondly your friend may not be a whore but she is a bumbass. I can understand that abortion is murder but to spread them at 13 and be totally against abortion when you haven't even gotten out of Junior High yet, then spas and say "Well, I have to keep the kid and then finish 7th, 8th, 9th, 10th, 11th, and 12th grade. She should thank god she has parents who will raise HER kid for her even though they decided they didn't want anymore children. Lucky them, they get another one. At least this way she can go party, finish growing up and screw other guys. (let's be honest here. she is only 13 so she will be sleeping around. I very much doubt she'll do it only one time and then wait 5 years. plus the boyfriend will bail. That is a given. He will not stick around for this childs upbringing)

Answer 3

Looks like she needs the help sweetie, not you. Also she does not need to get an abortion. She needs to have it and put it up for adoption. I can't stand baby killers. Babies are not responsible for being here, besides there are so many couples that cannot have children that could give the child a good life. Don't listen to these answers saying it is best to have an abortion ! Adoption is the way to go.

Answer 4

look , is this really your best friend ? If it was you would help her along in the prosess . What happen to the father of this unborn child ? If he ain't helpin' then you need to teach him a lesson . You seriously need to get this fact in you head , more than half of the United States teens have have become pregnent or have lost their virgenity by the age of 11 . Do you know how that effects the US's reputation ? It really puts us down in this situtation . What you really need to do is tell your friend is that if she really wants a kid right now , she needs to decide what she is going to do about the kid . Is she going to drop out of school and raise the kid ? or is she going to put it in an orphanage ? She should really ask herself these questons before she does anything . Besides she could have a disease as far as you know . She could have any disease in the world !!! That is NUTS you know that ?!?! That's like running over your own dog/cat ( .... i hope you don't do that ) how would you feel if you were in line to have a kid and you knew you had a disease . This could effect the child in so many ways . It could come out of you DEAD . Not cool . So my real advise to you is help your friend , but go off doin' what she did . ok ? Later

Answer 5

I am interested in how she thinks she will support the child, I dont imagine her being able to get a job. I dont see how we can really help, but I also dont see the point in slagging the kid off! Im not pro or anti abortion, its whats right for the individual. There are many couples out there that want to adopt a baby and it can be your friends choice of family. I hope your friend makes the right choice, its not easy to raise a child no matter what age you are. I would be interested in the outcome.

Answer 6

She should talk to her parents. I can't say what she should do as I don't know her personal beliefs, but she may want to look into having an abortion if she does not want to raise a child or continue the pregnancy. See if there is a local Planned Parenthood she can go to. She may have to talk to her parents to get permission, depending on what state you live in.

Answer 7

okay for one dont listen to all these people who dont want a LIVING THING to stay alive that is now a baby from the moment of conception for the rest of its life, maybe adoption is a good idea for her if she cant take care of it. there are lots of people out there that want children more than anything and just cant have them give them a chance also if she wants something to do with the babys life find out about open adoption then she can still see the baby and keep in touch just please dont resort to abortion that is MURDER. i hope your friend makes the right decision.

Answer 8

I'M 22 W/ 4KIDS AND 1 ON THE WAY I HAD MY FIRST CHILD @ 15. TELL HER TO KEEP HER CHILD AND RAISE HIM/HER LIKE SHE WOULD'VE IF SHE WAS 23. IT'S NOT HER AGE THAT MATTERS IT'S HER MATURITY LEVEL AND HAVIN THIS BABY WIL HELP HER MATURE A LOT FASTER. THIS BABY IS A BLESSING NOT A BURDEN. RASING A CHILD IS NOT AS HARD AS EVERYBODY TELLS YOU IT IS, YOU JUST HAVE TO BE PREPARED TO BE A MOM OR DAD 24-7. AND KNOW HOW TO SATND ON YOUR OWN TWO FEET IF NEED BE. NOW I KNOW SHE IS ONLY 13 I DON'T KNOW WHAT THE LEGAL WORKING AGE IS FOR YA'LL BUT IF SHE CAN'T GET A JOB NOW THE GOV'T WILL HELP HER GET ON HER FEET TIL SHE CAN BE ON HER ON. TELL HER DON'T HAVE TOO MUCH PRIDE TO GET HELP FROM THE GOV'T CAUSE WHEN SHE GETS A REAL JOB THEY WON'T BE TOO PROUD TO TAKE FROM HER CHECK. REMEMBER "GOD WILL NEVER PUT MORE ON YOU THEN YOU CAN BEAR".

Answer 9

Tell her to abort it, for the love of everything that is holy in this world. She is a child, she can't be raising one of her own.

And stop hanging out with idiots.

ATTENTION ARRIAL P:

"You seriously need to get this fact in you head , more than half of the United States teens have have become pregnent or have lost their virgenity by the age of 11 ."

How can she put that fact in her head when it IS NOT A FACT? That is completely ludicrous and not based in any sort of evidence. You just pulled that out of your a55. I am reporting you for abuse since spreading that kind of information is dangerous.

Answer 10

Talk 2 some1 older that u trust if u think her parents will bug out, make sure u do it quick , have the person help her decide if she wants 2 keep it, get rid of it, or put it up for adoption, good luck.

Answer 11

ok first of all thats illegal to have sex at 13
second if you do wear a condom
third abort the baby
fourth dont hang out wit hores