2006-07-21 14:40:38 · 26 answers · asked by juliete21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yes
2006-07-21 14:43:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It Depends why a person cheats in the first place and whether they learned a good lesson from that experience. Some persons cheat because they are not ready for a commitment. But a majority of the ones not ready for a commitment need therapy to be ready to commit and do not get it so they continue this cycle without finding why? If a person already has been commmited for quite some time and cheats, then the issues is still why? Could be lack of communication and selfishness on the part of BOTH Partners (not just the transgressor); but if a person cheats once and keeps on doing it, they are probably crying out for some kind attention and do not respect themselves much, how can you respect someone else if you don't respect yourself? And by this I mean, if you don't discriminate in who you give favors to, then obviously it is because you don't value yourself highly to do so in the first place.
Can a cheater change? If they want to learn a better way to live their life. But if not, then they will always be a cheater.
2006-07-21 21:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they remain cheaters. People cheat and learn to get a away with it. So, they play this game with people that are also cheaters, and cover up for each other by arranging secret meetings to f***k and wen they get caught they of course, deny it.So, the answer to your ? is yes, and they get good at it.(men and women).
2006-07-21 22:03:35 · answer #3 · answered by Karen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What comes around goes around. Yes I strongly believe and both of these says. I just trust that if the cheater is ready to make another move he will tell me about it first.
2006-07-21 21:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by florie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people that believe that make me sick....i once cheated on my ex-wife when we were still dating. i felt terrible about it, i did tell her about it at a later date. that has been the only time i ever cheated, and in case you may be wondering yes I've had a few long term relationships since then. just b/c someone cheats once doesn't mean they will always cheat....however there are cases where that is true, but please don't assume that just because a person cheated once in their life means they will forever cheat on their significant other.
2006-07-21 21:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! i also think that a cheater can slow down,but never stop cheating...that,s like asking a leopard to change their spots...you know what i mean?
2006-07-21 21:43:49 · answer #6 · answered by 0samaria s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every cheater I've ever been with...Sorry
2006-07-21 21:45:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mercedes_82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No if time changes then so can people. The problem is how much time will it take to go through the process of changing.
2006-07-21 21:44:28 · answer #8 · answered by SHYSTI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES. My ex proved that beyond a shadow of a doubt
2006-07-21 21:48:12 · answer #9 · answered by Maxwell Smart(ypants) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, cheated once or many times? Once is a mistake, many times is a lifestyle choice.
2006-07-21 21:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by Kyanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free"
But there is always prayer and forgiveness
2006-07-21 21:44:12 · answer #11 · answered by american_angel068 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋