2006-07-21 14:38:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
For a girl 35. Sorry a dad here talking....lol
Honey the loss of viriginity should never happen until you are emotional and financally able to handle the consequences.
For some PEOPLE, not just you girls, that could be in thier teens. For others it may not be till they are older.
I'm not saying be married first. Heaven knows I was not. However it was with a women I loved and we did get married.
Remember this..if you are considering having sex with your guy, what can or will happen? Pregnancy, STD's, Aides, Cervical Cancer to name only a few.
2006-07-21 14:59:58 · answer #1 · answered by mikeae 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
You should wait till you are married, because there is no good result in a teen having sex. There's possibilities of pregnancy, STD's, and HIV/AID's. Even if you use a condom it is only effective by 99.9% and the birth control pill is more at about an 80%. The best way to stay at that 100% from everything I listed, would be to remain a virgin until you've found the man you intend to spend the rest of your life with. Believe it or not, some guys actually wouldn't want to know that their wife did it with someone else before she met him.
2006-07-21 14:40:50 · answer #2 · answered by Allyson B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-21 14:39:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-21 14:41:09 · answer #4 · answered by lu-lu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 10, the answer was 10.
Now that I am in my 40's, the answer is 30.
Virginity is precious. Once you lose it, you never get it back again. When you give it to someone, it should be to someone that wants to keep it and you forever.
Good luck!
Will D
Enterprise AL
2006-07-21 14:56:23 · answer #5 · answered by Will D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the old fashion sort, I think it should be on your wedding night, or when you have decided to enter a lasting relationship with someone. It is something you can only give once, and if you enter the relationship with the mind set that you intend it to last a lifetime, that is the only way you can tell your mate that you loved him or her very very much.
2006-07-21 14:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
However old you have to be to get legally married. You should never have sex before you are married, it's not fair to your future husband, whom you will be madly in love with and totally wish you were able to share your first time with him. Think about it please. Losing your virginity is a very big deal.
2006-07-21 14:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really dont think that there's a right and wrong answer for this. everybody has their own opinion. but i think it should be whenever you believe that you found the person you could possibly spend the rest of your life with. i mean, if you truly love that person then go for it, but to have sex just to be having sex is a waste of time in your life. 90% of the time the boys dont even care about the girls. you're jus another girl on his list to him. but when you both feel the same way then do what you feel is right
2006-07-21 17:06:33 · answer #8 · answered by heavensdevil36 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my "girlfriend" and i were in second grade my first time. she seemed very knowledgeable about it and in hind-sight she had probably been molested at some time in her childhood.
i don't think anyone should start that young, but if your looking for justification, the age of consent in several states is 14. go to another country and it could be younger.
basically you should know what you are doing. i don't mean wait for true love or marriage, but do your research. find out as much about sex as you can before your first time and you will enjoy it much more. try checking out some books at the library such as:
THE JOY OF SEX
EVERYTHING YOU EVER WANTED TO KNOW ABOUT SEX (but were afraid to ask)
DR. RUTH'S GUIDE TO GOOD SEX
and go online to:
http://www.coolnurse.com
or
http://www.drruth.com
these books and web pages all have information about sex and SAFE sex.
2006-07-21 16:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by Flint 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely no younger than 20. Trust me you can make a much better choice at 20+ rather than 14, 15... Wait, you're worth it!
2006-07-21 14:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by Dr. Answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋