me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 2 months, i love him 2 death, and he treats me better than any guy ever has. but im facing a dilema. i believe i've been emotionaly scarred by a past relationhsip who the guy i dated treated me HORRIBLY. now i'm very afraid that the boyfriend i have now will hurt me the same way or just hurt me in general. im worried that he'll break up with me for no reason, he'll start mistreating me, and that he'll cheat on me because im waiting for sex until im married. i really do trust him its just this worry and fear that i have in the back of my head wont go away. since its summer vacation i dont get to see him as much, and i havent seen him in over 2 weeks, and im afraid he'll fall out of love with me. ive prayed and prayed but still the worry and fear wont go away, can someone please help me?
2006-07-21 14:36:50 · 6 answers · asked by sarah_gotdance 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your fears are very normal. I was hurt very badly too and I thought that about the guy I am with when we first met, but we are now getting married.
Just take things one day at a time and try hard not to worry about it.
He loves you, be confident in just that.
Be confident in the fact that he treats you so well
Not all guys are the same.
There really are good men out there.
2006-07-21 14:42:11 · answer #1 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you're so worried that sex will make him go away then have sex...but i'll tell you this...it wont keep him...if he's gonna leave he's gonna leave...if he really feels for you the way he says then trust him..as long as yall keep an open connection things should be good...
2006-07-21 21:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by klee0926 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave the past behind and if you you say you trust and he's not forcing you to have sex I think you should just let ever thing follow your heart
2006-07-21 21:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by Ray Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what your ex has done to you is scar you so when ever you feel insecure you will want to leave someone that cares about you and if you love him make more of an effort to see him
2006-07-21 21:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by babyb457 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get over these fears. You can't let past relationships, ruin your current relationships.
2006-07-21 21:40:20 · answer #5 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he REALLY loved u, it wouldnt turn out that way. and u gotta be strong girl. and dont allow urself to never let anyone close enough to hurt you b/c of one lousy relationship. its alrite, ppl r different
2006-07-21 21:40:13 · answer #6 · answered by strictly_maggie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋