2006-07-21 14:18:31 · 5 answers · asked by luzdelia.ramos@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, you might just say, "I don't want to hurt you're feelings, but you're annoying," then swiftly move on to the part where you tell the person what it is about them that annoys you. But that doesn't mean you have to welcome the person back with open arms for changing. The boy who keeps scratching his butt on the date and smelling it, not realizing that there's someone in the car who would prefer not to, is likely to be hopeless even if he does temporarily modify his behavior to please you. Seriously, being candid in some situations is much more effective than being tactful!
2006-07-21 14:29:56 · answer #1 · answered by John (Thurb) McVey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in God any more because of a tragic motor scooter and gun accident that blew off my left foot and three fingers. I often wonder that if I saw Bozo naked would I think that chocolate milk cannot be sold in stores in a plastic container, or could it? That is a very deep and philosophical question that many great people like Coach Ditka and Jesus could not answer when they went before a grand jury for illegal dancing in Utah. Just because Van Halen does not play at your grammar school dance doesn't mean that you have missed out in life or did something wrong. You have to move past those issues and begin to address the fact that Men are from Mars and Women are from Saturn. I once fed a dead rat to a blind man in a tossed salad and he was not happy with the dressing I picked for him. Do you ever reflect on the meaning of extra large shrimp or why plumbers don't lay plumbs when bricklayers lay bricks? Dance freely and don't forget to wear sunscreen when you go to the bowling alley. The government and aliens want you to stop smoking and you are just falling into their plan and trap. Think about all the people in the phone book that cannot play the piano or shoot a cross bow. Why is that? I cannot explain this to anyone unless they open their mind to free thoughts and the acceptance that dogs can teach humans to create a clean burning combustible engine to put in our automobiles. I do generally wear only women's orange panties when I cut the lawn in the morning. I think that is the best answer that I can provide with this limited amount of time and research.
2006-07-21 21:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them the truth but don't do it in a mean way. You could say something like: I hate to say this I don't want to hurt your feelings but when you do this or that it can annoy me sometimes. You could just say thing's like that without hurting their feelings. Say Im sorry but I want to be by myself for a while.
2006-07-21 21:25:23 · answer #3 · answered by delawaregirl83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slowly don't answer their calls... when they talk don't say much back. Avoid them as much as you can and eventually they will find someone who will want to be around them....
Words hurt feelings... try to do your best to give speachless hints of how you feel.
Make sure they are atleast cared for though if they need your help.
Alot of times you'll find that the people you wanted be around the least... might be the people you suddenly end up needing the most in your life someday.
2006-07-21 21:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jayrowme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with them and let them know that they are annoying you. truth hurts...get it over with
2006-07-21 21:22:00 · answer #5 · answered by rednecksurfer_roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋