why do men cheat when they have a woman who cooks cleans sex when he wants?

Question

but still goes sumwhere else why oh why

Answer 1

well as far as appreciation goes, I don't think one guy on the planet would think its a bad thing for the woman to do it right...

apparently, your problem is not in the how you do it, but rather in the when-you-bust-it-out.

Ask yourself:
what is it that I want from a guy? do I want the promiscuous or committed type?

You have to know what you want before you start pulling up expectations. Once you know what you want, then you have to do your part and behave accordingly.

Listen,

When you give the guy sex even before you get his sure commitment, then girl, its pretty unrealistic to expect much. If you're easy, the majority of guys will take you for granted. It’s that simple.

The golden rule in the game of attraction:

The harder you make yourself to get, the more he will crave it. Don’t you recognize this quote: "we all want something we can't get"?

Make him respect you or else don't give him any sex. H.ell, don’t even give him any attention. What does he think you think you are anyway? A sex toy?

Have a little self-worth.

Restrict yourself until you get what you want from the guy, (in your case he needs to stop mingling with other women) this will send a message to the guy that it takes a certain level of respect, a certain level of commitment, to get his hands on you.

All you have to do is decide how high your standard is and then make the guy reach it.

Its amazing how woman don’t know how to use the boy’s weaknesses against him. A sucker who’s lust crazy will do just about anything for it. Sad, but true.

And everything I just said assumes that the guy you are with isn't so lame that he doesn't get it. If he keeps on being disrespectful, I'm afraid you'll have to find a better man, and not some little boy this time around.
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Ideally however, the ultimate standard for a woman would be no sex until marriage. But before the horny mob tries to lynch me, try to listen first. That’s how civilized people communicate.

It’s good to hold on because it makes the man put down everything he has (theoretically including his precious feelings), for her. It forces the highest level of commitment. Even though we're in a sad age when marriage itself is a little shaky, its still the best bet. A 50% chance is better than handing your heart over some guy salivating while staring at your booty. When he reaches for his belt he’ll probably drop it for all I care.

Then again, what am I saying? how many woman have the balls...er...ovaries to hold off sex till marriage anyway? Virtuous ladies are long extinct, right?

Answer 2

Well there is a saying that goes like this.....

"They Want A Lady In The Street"
" But A Freak In The Bed"

You have to think of different ways of sparking his fire.In and out of the bedroom. A different nightie he's never seen. Do your hair different. Might I also suggest you look up, "Kama Sutra". They have many positions you can try , to make him LOSE HIS MIND!!! He won't look anywhere else.Try a Mirror in the Bedroom, to get A Birds Eye View.
Throw him a curve now and then do something he doesn't expect from you, be it in the bedroom or out. It will spark that curiosity fire.

Not All Men Are The Same...There Are Still Some Good Ones Out There.

Answer 3

because no matter what...even if they do have a good woman at home...like Chris Rock said...you could be the best looking woman in the world and men will cheat...they're that low...not saying that all men cheat...but most men do...the ones that dont cheat always wind up with a woman who cheats on them then they feel as if they cant go on and so they say screw every woman in the world and start cheating cuz they think that they'll never find a good woman...so sorry to say but even tho u do all of that he's probably still going to cheat...

Answer 4

Because nobody wants a pathetic push-over. Where is the fun in that?

You need to get a life, get a spine and get your own out of the short time you have left here. What do you think you will regret if you die today? That you didn't leave the dinner table shinier, or cook a souffle or lost 2 more pounds? Kick him out.

Live like today is your last day because one of these days it will be!

Answer 5

2 points

Answer 6

Many "men" are not a man at all. A true man will remain faithfull and take care of the woman he is in a relationship with.
If the woman is holding up her end of the relationship then a true man will step up.
If he doesn't then he does not respect himself and is not capable of respecting you.

Answer 7

Sadly your choice of men do not respect themselves so you won't be shown any. As crazy as it may sound it is okay to make a man earn his keep. Don't be in a hurry to hear words like 'I love you', or baby,baby,baby. Demand to know 'What's my name, who am I and what are you bringing to the table!' You can do it and why not. You are someone!!!!

Answer 8

I would love to know the answer to this one, too. I'm a guy, and I don't understand why they would. Its beyond me.....Maybe nagging or something annoying from the one that gives them all they need? Its only a guess, though.

Answer 9

Because some think with the wrong head and that some of them are very self centered

Answer 10

because some men want the "b1tch" type girl. Someone that doesn't give them what they want and makes them work for their services. They need a challange all the time.