when did you lose your virginity?

Question

what do you think is the right age to lose it at?
do you regret your first time?
i just wanna know to help me with my own thoughts about it.
thanks

Answer 1

lost it at 15, pregnant at 16 and had a baby at 17. do I regret it.... yes and no. yes that i wish i would of waited until i was older...no because I raised my son whos now almost 20 years old alone and he's a great kid. I struggled but it only made me stronger .

Answer 2

How do you define virginity?

The common definition of a virgin is someone who has not had sex with a member of the opposite sex yet. Even this definition falls flat, though, when you realize that for many years, this was a physical issue, almost a medical one. A woman with an intact hymen was considered to be a virgin, and that was the end of the matter. Women in the Middle Ages, for example, were considered to be virgin if their hymen was intact. If a woman stretched or tore her hymen while horseback riding, she was simply and plainly no longer a virgin. If a woman was born with a tiny or nonexistent hymen, she was not a virgin.
It's also important to realize that there are still cultures today, such as some Middle Eastern ones, for whom this definition still holds.

And of course, no similar barometer existed for men. Virginity was a concept that held serious significance when it came to women only. There was a slighter consideration of it regards men, but it was with women that the importance of her virginity was paramount. (This attitude is somewhat reflected today, where the word can apply to men and women both, but it is still considered to "matter" more when it comes to women.)

This can seem strange to us, but it's important to keep in mind why the state of a woman's hymen was considered to be so vital -- it was the means by which one could prove that she had had sex with a man. A woman who had torn or stretched her hymen was "less valuable goods" (yippee for us, eh?) because her untouched state could not be determined with absolute certainty. A woman with a tiny or nonexistent hymen was similar. Thus a virgin was a woman who, it could be positively proven by physical evidence, had not had a penis inserted into her vagina.

And again, a similar physical barometer did not exist for men. So defining virginity isn't the clear-cut thing that we think it can be, and the definition has changed from the past to the present.

Answer 3

I was 15 and really regreted it I really wish I would have waited until I was in college at least out of high school it makes life so much more complicated.I have a friend she was 15 and the first time she got pregnant.It is to much to worry about at a young age.

Answer 4

I was almost 22 years old before I had sex and I still wish it had been with someone else. The guy didn't care that much about me even though I thought he did. No one can tell you when to do it. I am 40 now and feel like I should tell you to wait till you are at least 18, but ultimately it is up to you. Just remember that it is better with someone who cares about you, and someone who cares about you will not pressure you to do it.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

I was way too young, I don't regret it because it taught me a lesson, but I wish it had been different, and I would have liked to be older.

Answer 7

That was to far back to remember and at my age I am lucky if I remember what I did last week

Answer 8

ii lost it @ 16.......iim 17 now.....lost it wid my bf n styll wid him...waznt ready @ first..took a whole year for him to convice him n have trust in him.... buh finaLLii got over it n it waznt az bad az i thought it wud b.......ii dont regret it @ all...itz a big part in our relationship....buh ill advice u to b careful....u shud have trust in d guy first...dont get played otherwise u'll regret it all ur life....

Answer 9

i am 25 virgin,wait till u find someone,

Answer 10

When a girl let me put it to her.