2006-07-21 13:31:38 · 19 answers · asked by Luisa 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
No, it is a natural fear. I think we all have it.
2006-07-21 13:33:01 · answer #1 · answered by AMY L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. The fear of rejection is one of the most fundamental fears that human beings experience. The trick is learning to cope with the fear and finding ways to get past it. Like other fears, you must face this one to overcome it. Something that may help is to remember that each person is unique. Because of that uniqueness, others may not like you and others may love you. Some people go through life scared of the people that do not like them. In my opinion, if they do not like you, then you have lost nothing. If they like you, you have gained a friend. The act of rejection may help you figure out who likes you and who does not. Bear in mind that many types of “like” exist. Sometimes people like you as a friend. Sometimes people like you as a co-worker. Sometimes people like you, and maybe even feel a romantic connection towards you. Sometimes people like you, but they have no interest in the romance department.
None of us can help how we feel: however, we can help how we deal those feelings. One way to deal with rejection is never to let the rejecter see you sweat.
Be strong!
Will D
Enterprise AL
2006-07-21 13:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Will D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think of it this way, there is someone out there for EVERYONE and of course there may be a time(s) you are rejected but also remember that LIFE GOES ON! You want to move forward in life, not backward and you definitely don't want to take a pause in life and stay there. Just be strong and do what you think is right!
2006-07-21 14:04:25 · answer #3 · answered by urbabiegurl91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm scared of being rejected too. It is normal to some degree. But don't let it get to you as it has gotten to me. I don't like going out I feel like I have no friends. and I feel like people laugh at me . So don't be me.
2006-07-21 13:48:59 · answer #4 · answered by diamondblue382000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl pls..i STIL feel that way,lol..i would say its sumthing we all DONT want 2 feel. but everytime i think of not doing sumthing b-cuz i might get rejected i jus think of that saying..*regret is a ******..so jus go 4 it..i mean its betta 2 do it..cuz wen its over n done with it u can look back on it n say that u wasnt scared 2 step up 2 that plate of fear. i hope im making sense,lol. dont b scared...everybody gets rejected in life. jus make tha bes of it.
2006-07-21 14:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh course not, we all have the instinct to protect ourselves. A fear of rejection is just your brain trying to protect you from getting hurt. But you can not let it control you. Sometimes we have to go against our fear in order to move on with our lives
2006-07-21 13:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by cocoavanillagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because lots of girls AND boys are afraid of being rejected,my friend was afraid of being rejected by a guy she wanted to ask out.
2006-07-21 15:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by iJess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope its normal. im scared of being rejected but sometimes u just have to suck it up and just move on
2006-07-21 13:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope!To be truthful,I liked a popular guy last year but never said one word to him because I thought he wouldn't like me back.If he rejected me in front of everyone I would have been so embarrassed i'd die of shame!
2006-07-21 17:34:57 · answer #9 · answered by charmed_ones_lover 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no everyones scared of rejection for it hurts us
2006-07-21 13:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i am always afraid wen i ask out a guyu i really like ask youur friend to ask him cuz then to me in my opinon it doesnt hurt as much !
2006-07-21 13:40:53 · answer #11 · answered by blah blah blah blah blah♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋