I am 4 1/2 months pregnant and when I told my boyfriend he was happy because he wanted a child. Do you think he will be in it's life forever, and be there for me. I'm 18 and he is 20. Most men would have said have an abortion but he didn't.
2006-07-21 12:55:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
well c n find out
at 18 dont u have anythin else to do besides makin babies?
2006-07-21 12:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him again in 4 1/2 months and see if his reaction is the same when the baby is real and breathing and when he realizes he is responsible for supporting the child for the next 18 years. I hope he feels the same, especially if you love him.
Good luck!!
2006-07-21 20:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by No one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
18 is still a kid. Yeah it's so excited to know that you're becoming pretty mother at such a young age but you might suffer later on if you begin to realize you two are too young to afford a growing baby. It'll will be much better if wait 5 or 10 years when you two are mature physically and psychologically to consider having of baby of our own. Best of luck, hunie.
2006-07-21 20:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by mimosa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will he always be in the child's life? Most likely.
Will he always be there for you? 18 & 20 is pretty young. Only time will tell...
2006-07-21 19:58:47 · answer #4 · answered by ouoray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST BECAUSE HE DIDN'T ASK YOU TO GET AN ABORTION DOESN'T MEAN HE'S GOING TO BE WITH YOU FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE OR EVEN THE BABY'S LIFE.
HOPEFULLY HE'S A GOOD GUY AND WILL BE THERE FOR YOU AND YOUR BABY.HOWEVER HE CAN ALSO WALK OUT ON YOU AT ANY MOMENT AND WHY IS IT THAT WE ARE MORE HAPPY TO GIVE SOMEONE A BABY,BUT NOT MAD THAT ONCE THEY FIND OUT THAT WE'RE PREGNANT THEY ARE NOT RUNNING TO THE NEAREST JEWELER TO GET A RING FOR OUR FINGER.
2006-07-21 20:10:44 · answer #5 · answered by kiss4virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well only you really know the answer to that question but what i can tell you was that i got pregnant at 19 and had my first son his father was 22 and three kids later we are still together and married
2006-07-21 20:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by kitty81301 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worried about it if he is happy and your happy than just have a great pregnancy. If down the road he decided to leave don't worry cause you'll be a great mom. good luck and your in for a real treat, having kids are special. Just don't have to much.
2006-07-21 20:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may, If he has been a reliable person so far. He really needs to do the right thing and marry you and raise the baby together. Good luck with the baby.
2006-07-21 20:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only time will tell how long he will be in the child's life. He could be actively involved with it the rest of his life.
2006-07-21 19:59:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows..And he may be all excited know but once the realisation hits him that hes gonna be a daddy he may change but on the other hand he could be opposite..The older you get the wiser you come(well for most)so take it as it comes...
2006-07-21 19:58:22 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋