he hits her and we r only in the 8th grade but she realy likes him and if i tell her something i am scared she will be mad b/c every time i do she gets mad and says it is my life noy yours. i am scared 4 her.
2006-07-21 12:35:55 · 12 answers · asked by mrndvs445 1 in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
Speak to your friend again. This is physical abuse. IF she chooses not to listen speak to her parents, or another trusted adult. This has to stop NOW.
2006-07-21 12:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's right... it is her life BUT if you two are friends than you have the right to be concerned when she's in an abusive relationship. I think you should defininately talk to her about it. Just tell her that you realize she cares about this guy but she doesn't deserve to be hit. If she doesn't listen, talk to an adult.. maybe her parents? You should definitely try to stop your friend from getting hurt. She may be mad at you, she might even stop talking to you for a while but just keep in mind that you did the right thing and eventually she'll realize that you were just helping her. Well I hope I helped! Good luck!
2006-07-21 12:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is how you approach it. Tell her that you don't think that he should be hitting her, and that he isn't any good for her. Tell her that if he hits her agian, you are going to tell her parents or the cops. School is starting soon tell her that if she doesn't want to talk to her parents then tell her to go to a councilor, or to a womens shelter to get some counciling. What he is doing to her is not ok, and as a friend you have to tell her what is on your mind. My friend did and because of it I am alive today.
2006-07-21 12:44:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 00:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right to be concerned about your friend. Unfortunately, most girls will not leave an abusive partner. This is important enough that you should tell her what he is doing is wrong, even it ruins your friendship. Know that ultimately your friend has to make her own decisions (and mistakes).
2006-07-21 12:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by Regularguy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should definitely tell her to leave - he's abusing her this early, what happens later on?
and, you'd be a good friend for doing so. Good friends - real friends - are the ones that are brave enough to say those things that person doesn't really want to hear.
2006-07-21 12:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to her parents ...even if she gets mad at you ..in time she will realize you did it for her own good and she WILL forgive you and realize you did the right thing...........if your not comfortable with going to her parents then go to your counselor at school..a teacher any adult at all that will listen and keep on going to them or the next one until they do listen ....sounds like she isnt strong enough to stand up for herself right now so she is in need of a "true friend" to do it .....do yourself and her a favor and be that friend . get off the computer and do it now
2006-07-21 12:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by ptmamas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Id not worry 2 much im sure sum1 like an adult will find out sooner or later! And tell her man if u he doesnt stop sum1s gonna kick his ***!
2006-07-21 12:39:20 · answer #8 · answered by bettyboop344 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get an adult you trust involved. They will know the avenues to handling that best.
P.S. Wrong Yahoo Answers category.
2006-07-21 12:46:41 · answer #9 · answered by Peter in La Jolla San Diego CA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well good for you. You should do something
2006-07-21 12:39:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋