I think men are programmed biologically to need multiple partners.
2006-07-21 12:30:43 · 40 answers · asked by Allfather's Ravens 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
not always
2006-07-21 12:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by diana l 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Men are not programmed biologically to need different partners. That is a society cop out.
It is NEVER OK! It could accidentally be a death sentence to the one you married.
It is possible, the condom might break, she might have HPV, condom doesn't protect you from that little cancer causer. So why risk it? It isn't fair to her, no matter what she did or didn't do.
A man would talk it out or leave. She doesn't deserve the humiliation of a cheating man. She doesn't deserve to die because you couldn't keep it real. Because you had to lie and cheat. Can't have one without the other.
How do you feel thinking of another man caressing your wife, her body, kissing her lips, envision him going into the secret, private, intimate, places you thought only the two of you shared? Still think you should give her that option?
Can she cheat? Tell her if she can, and if it's yes, then leave and make it over, don't cheat.
Please, please, please don't cheat. It is so horrible when the stuff that happens in the dark comes to the light of day. It is so hurtful and ugly. Please don't do that to the woman you love.
2006-07-21 12:40:29 · answer #2 · answered by nik named mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, good question though, The way I see it is: if they could put one man on the moon, why can't they put them all up there!!
No I'm not " male bashing", but back to the " unhealthy male partners" who cheat. Basically a man cheats because he has no moral character, no moral back-bone and fundamentally he is very insecure of his " manhood".
Sweetie, men are not programmed biologically to cheat. Men who cheat or who needs multiple partners have a personality disorder that fringes on narcissism, ( which means he's a self-centred egotistical person who has a inflated sense of self-worth that makes him think he is one up on all the rest of the guys. This guy thrives on the attention he can get from as many women as he can, ( poor woman) who gets stuck on one of these guys. This type of guy is very dangerously insecure and rotten to the core. Bad news. Absolutely no integrity. A relationship with a guy who cheats is what it is " an abusive relationship".
2006-07-21 13:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by trieghtonhere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if cheating is ever ok. Sex with multiple partners can be ok. Cheating implies some kind of commitment to the relationship. If there's no understanding of being exclusive, then I think it should be fine.
2006-07-21 12:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by Phil 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is never ok! There are so many consequences and feelings always get hurt! I dont think men need multiple partners they just need to be satisfied quiet frequently and sometimes it is just to much for us girls and they go else where.
2006-07-21 12:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO... not okay. Programmed biologically to need multiple partners is a crock and a cop-out.
2006-07-21 12:33:19 · answer #6 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first: woman can have more sexpartners than man. men usually are not that potent to satisfy more woman.
there are cultures were a man can have more than one wife. but that is accepted. i heard that even in those societies the woman are not happy with the arrangement and can become jealous.
second: if you are in a relationship, you should talk about what is acceptable and what not.
cheating is hurtful. woman feel betrayed and man feel worse, it hurts their manhood. (i try to choose the right words, but English is not my native lenguage) cheating i not good for the emotional bound. if a man needs to have more than one sexpartner, cause that it is about, he should not take a spouse who axpects him to be faithful. it will hurt the relationship.
2006-07-21 12:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by femari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Cheating is not okay. if a girl rreally likes you why be so mean and break her heart. you know? if you do that u have to think about hte other person would they be okay with this no would u want them to have sex with another person would u mind if they cheatedon you? why break a heart for another girl if u wanna cheat breakup with the girl and go out with the girl ur cheating with
2006-07-21 12:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
god i wish i knew the answer to this. goes back to the nature / nurture debate - but really i think men have been conditioned to believe its ok for them to have alot of partners - these days its not as acceptable and plenty of men live happy and fulfilled lives with women and children they love, equally plenty of women have affairs... its not biological.
2006-07-21 12:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by monkeynuts 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men are not programmed. there is nuttin stoppin u from cheatin except for the fact that it is morally wrong. if u want ur gf 2 respect u, u need her 2 trust u. if u cheat on her, regardless of how much u 'NEED' 2 cheat on her, its not right.
so no
2006-07-21 12:37:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that's mean to any one in the relationship and it's just plain a$$hole like! the only way to have "multiple partners" is to date exclusively with the knowledge of your partners
2006-07-21 12:34:41 · answer #11 · answered by briana m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋