i never had sex with anybody..as u can say, im still a virgin.. i do have a boyfriend, and sometimes we were playing around and stuff.. he never cummed near my vaginal opening.. but today is suppose to be my period due..and i already felt like stomach cramp a lil bit.(1-2 days ago). but it hasn't come yet.. is it any probability for me to get pregnant??
2006-07-21 12:23:33 · 13 answers · asked by girly_girl 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I am so PARANOID these couple days, thinking of if i get pregnant, what would my life be? please help me guys.. I dont want offense or stupid answeres.. thanks
2006-07-21 12:24:44 · update #1
I'm not that young.. Im not 14
2006-07-21 12:50:07 · update #2
Hello From a Teacher
Well, I'll be honest with you and tell you a strue story. Years ago, my mother had a close female friend, Jane. Well, Jane had this teenage daughter who was a virgen, and one day she noticed that her daughter kept crying every time she looked at her.
After days of doing this, Jane confronted her daughter--and her daughter confessed that she thought she was pregnant, but that she was devastated because she was still a virgen. To clear things up, Jane took her to the doctor. The doctor revealed, after examining her, that she was indeed pregnant, and that she was indeed still a virgen. Turns out, she used to make out with her boyfriend, and her boyfriend would--"come"--near her vaginal area. That seman "splashed" near her vagina, and traveled...
So, even though its very, very, rare Virgens can get pregnant. but I dont think you are pregnant, because you said your boyfriend never did that. So, be careful, and know that you can also catch herpes and genital warts by "making out" if your boyfriend semen touches your skin--because those are skin-to-skin contracted viruses. And there is no cure for Herpes or Genital Warts. And, although its best to wait for marriage to have sex, you must use condoms each time you have sex-or you run the risk of HIV and all other STD's.
Peace
2006-07-21 12:37:18 · answer #1 · answered by Plus-Sized &Proud 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
#1: If you are being honest, and there has been no sperm anywhere near your vagina, then do not worry about it.
#2: While a woman could probably go into greater detail, I have dated many women over the years, and I am hear to tell you your period will not show up like clockwork every single time, every single month. There are probably a million things (besides pregnancy) that can throw it off. Again, not the expert on this topic, just observations from past relationships.
#3: If you guys are going to fool around, with or without penetration USE A CONDOM. Regardless. And don't start fooling around for like a hour or so then put one on, put it on right away. This way, (unless it breaks) you'll have peace of mind.
#4: Of course, you can take the less popular route, and not fool around at all, but somehow I don't see that happening!
2006-07-21 12:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have to ejaculate near your vagina. If he or you touch the semen and then touch your vagina the sperm can swim right on up. The moist environment created by your arousal makes this very likely.
You are not old enough to have to worry about ruining your life. Why not wait until you are a little more mature before having continued sexual activity. If your boyfriend cares for you, he will not put you into this type of jeopardy.
If you don't start your period within a week, get a home pregnancy test.
2006-07-21 12:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2015-04-30 20:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jule 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The likelyhood that you are pregnant is 0-1% there is that small precentage that sperm can go through clothing but it is very slim. If you are having these moments maybe it is time to go to planned parenthood and speak to someone about birthcontrol. As far as your cramping this is because you are due for your cycle. You are probably late because your so consumed of the possiblilty of becoming pregnant this is putting undue stress on you and this leads to a delay in your menses(period). Relax, your fine.
2006-07-21 12:49:52 · answer #5 · answered by melissa m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you're 14 and you haven't gotten your period yet doesn't necessarily mean that anything's wrong with you. Some girls, though, may not be getting their first periods because of other reasons: Girls who are underweight or who have eating disorders such as anorexia nervosa may notice a delay in the beginning of their periods. Girls who are very athletic may not get their periods until they stop exercising or competing so vigorously. Severe stress or certain illnesses can also delay menstruation.
It's also possible for a girl to get pregnant before she gets her first period. Being pregnant means that a girl wouldn't get her period until she's no longer pregnant.
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2006-07-21 12:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you had intercourse, the condom broke and he ejaculated interior you and then 2 days later you started your era...meaning you have been ovulating while the condom broke. Your ovulation week (the week in the previous your era) is the utmost available timeframe to get pregnant seeing as how the egg comes out of your ovaries in this week meaning that the egg has been uncovered to semen. i might say that there is a different danger which you will be pregnant. you may get your era once you're pregnant...extraordinarily considering you have been via have one in an afternoon or 2 after intercourse...yet while the subsequent one comes late...then I propose you circulate to your physician. solid success.
2016-10-08 04:35:15 · answer #7 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can get pregnant on your period. Your body is reacting to a natural instinct; it's saying you're of age to procreate. Fight the instinct. Get out and do something. If you have a child before you are 30, I'd say you've wasted your life.
2006-07-21 12:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by ninusharra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too concerned at this stage, wait a week or so and if it hasn't come then i would go to the doctor for a pregnancy test. Many things can alter the timing of cycle, stress is one of them. so try to relax.
2006-07-21 12:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by Amanda H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have stressed yourself out and when you are stressed, your period can come late, or not even come at all. (It's happened to me). If you are really afraid that you are pregnant, go take a pregnancy test. It's the best way to calm your nerves. Please remember next time that though rare, it is possible to get pregnant even if there was no penetration. And please use protection, you don't want to catch what's out there.
2006-07-21 12:36:47 · answer #10 · answered by celestial_goddess69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋