he geting message from other gurll and he say he not cheting on me but i think he is can u till me what to do or something?
2006-07-21 12:15:52 · 47 answers · asked by Juanita R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, he is. Come to my house so you can get revenge sex.
2006-07-21 12:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to these losers on here, lol... their crazy if they thnk you'll go with them, but anyway back to your question. If you found out that he is talking to another female and they aren't friends and you never met her then maybe he is cheating on you, you should try to limit your feelings for him from now on because you know whats going to happen sooner or later. But confront him about it, if you know he is a honest person and wouldn't lie to you then whatever he says you know you can blelieve him if he says he is not. But if you ask him and there is an un-easy feeling in his voice or if he strudders then you should tell him, its over, and that your not going to let him make a fool out of you... If you have that honest to god feeling, not suspition, that he is cheating on you then you have no other choice but to drop him like a bad habit! There will be others even if you feel like he is special, peolpe are afriad of the unknown after a relationship is through, just go about your business, keep yourself busy and happy, and a guy will fall right on your lap before you know it... ok? ;)
Well good luck and best wish for your conversation goes well, oh and be calm about it, don't show him you care if he does tell you that he is cheating on you... don't get mad cause he isn't worth it because he dis-respected you
2006-07-21 12:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by Late-Nite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't tell you what the messages are about then yeah it's a good probability he's cheating. A relationship is based on trust but that doesn't mean you should be clueless.
2006-07-21 12:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think we are psychic? If all it takes it a message from another girl to get you suspicious, then maybe you shouldn't be with him...either he is cheating or you've got trust issues you need to work on...
Either way, it doesn't sound like this is the relationship for you...
2006-07-21 12:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not ... it might be just a game. Making you feel insecure could make him feel powerful and in control of the relationship. He wants to see how music you really like him.
1. You can ignore it
2, Play the game ...and make him feel insecure
3, Or you can call him on it and let him know if he continues he will be playing his game ... without you.
2006-07-21 12:37:11 · answer #5 · answered by Sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it might sound bad...but when he gets up to like go to the bathroom or get a drink take his phone and tell him that you have to leave really fast. Then call the girl and ask her whats up...it might be nothing or it could be...but you wont ever know til you ask her...Good Luck...Hope everything turns out good for you!
2006-07-21 12:18:09 · answer #6 · answered by helloyou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously do this:
- Everynight before you sleep say this with self confidence. I DO NOT CARE IF HE's CHEATING OR NOT .. keep saying it untill you fall to sleep.
- Treat him the same way, meet guys, and receive messages. this will diffenately change him.
2006-07-21 12:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have read all the other answers you have recieved and some are kinda harsh but may be truthful. my opinion to you is that you should tust him for now . you know honestly she may just be a friend. and he may not be cheating on you . but you could also sit him down and talk to him also talk to him about your feelings and see how he responds. ask him who she is and if you could meet her and see how he responds. and then youll have your ansswer good luck and god bless
2006-07-21 12:22:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is not with you when he should be and if he is late a lot then maybe he is. If he talks on the phone more then his usual talking ,
any thing that he isn't doing that he used to . talking to someone else doesn't mean he is in the wrong.
2006-07-21 12:21:34 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so he gets messages from other girls. Can't he have girl friends as well as a girlfriend. That doesn't mean he's cheating. If you don't trust him, dump him. You may need to learn to trust.
2006-07-21 12:17:58 · answer #10 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try asking the other girl, not a bunch of strangers. then, again, she could be wanting to get with him, so she would lie. The big question is why don't you trust him, has he cheated before?
2006-07-21 12:19:35 · answer #11 · answered by judy_r8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋